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I'm 14 i have bluish green eyes, long dark hair, and tan skin. although i have been told by guys that i am pretty, they all say they could never date me because of my body. i am 5'8 130 LBs (a size two pants) with a size B cup. i have never met a guy who liked tall girls. i am starting to get selfsonscience. HELP!
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Well first of all you sound gorgeous, with a figure like that you could become a model. But you need to realise that you are still young and guys of your age are still growing in height. This may be a big issue now but when your older it will not be such an issue. But as for now make the most of your height. Its better than being small... Trust me on that one. Good luck my dear and take care x
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Wow, you can fit into a size 2 pants?? That's cool for being 130 lbs. It must be the height giving you the weight. You could be a model, tell them and they'll be sorry when they see you on the covers of magazines with their tongues hanging out of their mouths!
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I'm guessing your a freshman, and all the guys were short freshman year and some of the ones I didn't see over the summer got sooo tall!! By jr. year you'll be shorter then all the guys. Also, think about this: Models are really really tall, and most guys are attracted to them. If you have really long nice legs, then show them off, etc. Good luck. Also, maybe you can find a tall upper classman :-P
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HEY be glad ur tall but ALOT of guys like short girls I dunno why but yeah if Ur pretty and nice and funny and kewl then ur height should not be a problem thats just plain stupid !!!! So dont worry what the guys say Im 5'1 so I dont know how it feels to be tall but I hope I helped anywayz!! Love Ash
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You sound very pretty, and I wouldn't worry if I were you. You are probably taller than most guys your age right now because of puberty. Girls have their final growth spurt probably from 5th or 6th grade and they stop growing around their freshman or sophomore year of high school. Boys may not shoot up to over 5 foot 5 until sophomore / junior year of high school! Most of the boys who said you were too tall probably only said it because they are shorter than you, and haven't had their big growth spurt yet. From my point of view, I think that you are done growing. Don't worry, there's a LOT of guys that are past 5'8, and a great guy will come along in no time, and won't be so shallow as to tell you that you are too tall for his likings :) Good luck!
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hey! you do sound pretty... anyways, you gota find a guy that doesnt care about how tall you are. there are plenty of guys out there who are taller than you. and when you do find a guy, you'll know that he likes you for who you are and for your body as well. dont worry, you're only 14, you'll have plenty of opportunites to find guys. hope i helped, peace and love!
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It shouldn't matter what they think. My brother's g/f is 5'8 and she never had a problem with finding a boyfriend. I know a few tall girls just like you, but when guys stop being so gosh darn shallow is when they'll realize what a great girl you really are. Goodluck!
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honey, dont be selfconscious at all!! most people would KILL for your body. just give the boys time..theyll come around. soon youll have to beat em off with a stick.
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YOUR FINE! You sound liek you have a really nice figure. And guess what, all short people wanna be tall ! No ones perfect trus me
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At 14 the majority of the guys you are meeting are most likely too immature anyways. I'll tell you something too, I'm 5'9, not exactly 130 lbs (quite a few more, but I'm no beast) and through high school and such I was given a problem about my height, I took it personally. Then as I got older I realized that guys are just fools at that age, well some never get over being a fool. Also, I have been told by many of my guy friends who are shorter than me, that I am extremely intimidating, not only because of my strong personality but my height as well. I even spent a year in Spain, where people are considerably shorter and had to deal with it there. Many times I went out on dates and the guy would say well you know You're too tall. SO I'd just tell him that he was wrong and he was too short. GUys that give you a problem about your height are insecure about themselves and probably trying to make up for their own shortcomings, if you get what I mean. Don't stress, at 14 its not that big of a deal. And trust me there are plenty of guys out there who like tall girls. NO worries. :)
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You'll find somebody one day who likes you for who you are. There is absolutely nothing wrong with your body. Young guys might just be a little intimidated because of their own self-esteem problems, because the media presents this idea that the guy should always be taller and stronger than the girl. If the guys you speak to are just shallow then ignore them. If on the other hand they're just nervous about feeling small next to you then it's possible to set them at ease and help them realise how little it matters by not making an issue of your or their height, and laughing it off if they try and make an issue of it. Good luck!
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no no no no no! yur beautiful! start to model! yu have2 b 5'8" for that! dont listen 2 those guyz.. they should mature soon enough! 14 yr old guyz usually have2 grow more, or just start looking for taller guyz! go 4 like an older guy, like 15. they are taller and they arent nutshells! good luck hunni!
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ok well guys that are dickwads and are like "I dont date taller girls" they can suck dick. You sound like a beautiful girl. Wait for the right guy to come, hes out there. maybe look for older more mature guys... even if they are shorter thats still ok.. Older guys dont really care about height.
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you sound pretty. im 5'8, also 130, and not to sound any type of way, but i'd say you have a nice body. youre not fat. im also a b cup.. and b isnt small. it isnt big either, but its still nice. besides, big boobs are ugly and make grls look triflin.. so why wouldnt any guy want to date you? theyre stupid. theyre probably intimidated by you. dont be self conscious about yourself. and dont let guys make you feel that way either. bluish green eyes? long dark hair? shit, i wish i had those features.
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Screw other people. (Not literally.) Somebody who doesn't like you because of the way you look or the way your body is shaped isn't worth your time. And it also isn't worth your time to worry about your body. Just learn to love it. The people who matter will, too. You are beautiful the way you are. Beauty isn't looking like a model, or even looking like anybody else. Everybody is different, and it's the differences that make us beautiful.
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are you kidding me? You have a great body! Dont worry, the guys will catch up with your height very soon!
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Hun, I know how that feels. I'm also really tall and all the boys are short. And also, you're not overweight. You're just where you need to be, becasue the averadge 5'7 person is 135 pounds. Don't worry about what boys think, there's a boy just right for you out there. The boys who say mean things are RUDE. So don't let it get to you. You sound really pretty, and you sound like a good model. You're beautiful, so don't let it bother you!
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One... you are 14... guys suck ( and I'm not talking about oral) at 14... in fact they blow chunks well into their 16's... besides... most guys don't hit their growth spirt till 14/15 (they are slow like that.. not to mentially) so it'll be a while before they catch up.. until them, just remember that they are little pigs following their pointers through life, until they get some one pregnant.... so in short... don't worry about it, even if they don't grow mentally they will physically, they are just slower to catch on like that. You won't be the tallest one forever.
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