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well im not sure if i can say i like him.. but i have feelings. His name is Chris and i always see him in school and he usually looks at me when we are passing eachother in the halls. theres just something about him that , i dont know hes just my type. well the other day i took my friends bus and he was on it and when i looked back at him he was looking at me like in the eyes. one of his friends sits in back of me in my study and he sits alone so should i say somethin to him? i was just going to say sumthin to chris but we like dont know eachother.. and i dont know how to talk to him and i dont want to soudns weird.. id take my friends bus and what should i say when i first talk to him, should i sit near him and smile and say hir os tumhin or ask him if hed wanna hangout? i dunno:-/thankss<3
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Ok at the begining of the year I had this same exact problem with A guy I liked Named Dave and He would stare at me alot and I was to shy to just go up to him and talk to him but I did and were really really close now at first I only knew that his name was David and I didnt know anything else Now I know like 30 different things about him because I went to go talk to him>> If U dont get it LOL Im saying U should go up to him and talk to him and stuff
need more help tell me U were the one who wrote this or e-mail me at sk8rchick08@hotmail.com bye
Love Ash
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well, i no wut ur tlkin about cuz i sumtimes feel da same way. sumtimes i see dudes lookin at mi and i hav no idea wuts goin thru they're head :P but anyway, i think u shud say hi to him or ask him 4 a pencil or sumthin in class just to give u an excuse 2 tlk 2 him. then say hi 2 him in da halls. i no a lot ov ppl think dat guys rn't afraid 2 hav da courage 2 tlk 2 sum1. but dats not tru and a lotta guys don't hav it in dem 2 tlk 2 gurls cuz ov the same reason we're afraid 2 tlk 2 guys. so try 2 become his friend and get closer 2 him. den maybe u and ur friends and his friends (make it not a date!!) go 2 the movies or da mall or wutever to get 2 no him even better. i no i say dat 2 a lotta ppl but its a proven fact dat it helps :) also, take ur friends bus and, wen u no him betta, sit next 2 him on da bus. the key 2 sparkin anythin iz (lyk i said) gettin closer 2 him. hopefully that'll give u courage 2 tlk 2 him :)
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definately!! whats stopping you?? definately ask him if he'd wana chill .. jus start off small by saying hi and everything..and then gradually talk about other things such as where he lives, what grade is he in, how long hes lived here ....and so on ..
good luck hun !!
-aSh
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Just casually start a convo with him. Be like, "Hey Chris. Whats up?" Don't ask him a ton of questions. Talk to him in class and when you are on the bus. Get to know him and see if he is your type. Become friends with him and then see if he is a guy you could date. WHen you feel comfortable enough, ask him to hang out sometime. I hope I helped!!!
~***Hannah***~
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Hey! I'M IN THE SAME SITUATION AT YOU! well yeah, i can make the honest assumption that he probably likes you! keep taking his bus, sit near him, make eye contact, all that stuff. you guys probably might not start talking right away so give it a few days or a couple weeks so he can loosen up! i dont think you should ask him to hang out right away, just talk first and see if he'll eventually make the first move, you know? as for me and the guy who likes me, we're hanging out tonight and the football game and the homecoming dance, so its easy for me. so yeah, definitely keep taking the bus and smile and talk to him! take it slow at first. let me know how it turns out. take care
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actually, yes ma'am that'd be a great idea, guys r usually shy and don't know what to say to a girl they like, um...so yeah just go sit by him and be really nice, and just think of stupid stuff to say, guys dont care, they just want to be around the girl they like and talk with them :)
i KNOW he'd love it! specially from u! :D
lol, good luck
-Kyle
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i ThinK yOu are just a LiL nervOus tO have that first One On One cOnvO wiT him *lOl* ObviOusLy!i ThiNk yOu SHOULD say sOmethinq tO hiM...jUst b a casuaL taLker =) He`sz prObably as nervOus tO talk tO yOu as yOu aRe tO hiM..yOu shOuld deff. sit bY hiM aNd ask him iF he wants to hanq OuT thaTsz deff. a siqn yOu wanna qeT tO kNo him n mayBe later On qO OuT! maYbe yOu sHoUld keep takinq yOur friend`sz bus.keep smilinq tOo! it`LL make him tO want tO talk tO yOu real badlY!! weLL i hOpe i helPed at least a LiL! qOod Luck-Tiffany
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Well in class, you could likd "bump" into him on "accident" haha and be like "Ohhh sorry, whats your name again?" and go from there. If you think hes intrested ask him if him and his friends wants to hang out sometime. it works! Good luck! and tell me how it goes if you have time :D!
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