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Just friends....please.....
Okay, I have this friend, and he's a boy, I'm a girl. I just want to be good friends, but I know (well I guess I don't really know, but I strongly think)that he wants to be more than just friends. And I can't take that. I mean, what would happen if he asked me out and I'd have to say no? What would that do to our friendship....? Do you think I'm leading him on my being his friend? Please, I need help!
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no way are you leading him on! And I am jsut tryin to be homest I think he will act weird around you for a while of he does ask you out and say no* I know this from experiance and I said no and now he like doesnt like me n e more... sorry if this is bad advice*
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no you deffinitely arent leading him on by just being a friend...leading him on would be flirting and stuff like that so if he does ask you out youll just have to tellh im that you dont like him like that and you just want to be friends it might hurt him but hopefully he will forgive you ang you can still be friends
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Well if he does ask you out or hints to you about it or something then tell him that you arent really ready for a relationship right now, (although you may be) and that you're sorry but you really just want to be friends and nothing more and you dont want to hurt him by saying that but you'd rather stay really good friends.. If he cares about you he will accept that fact that you want to be friends and nothing else, and he will be content with that.
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Be like, omg, im sorry! Ive always thought of you of a brother!! But, before that, if you dont want to have to deal with that, then you should be like, dang, that guy is HOTT when you are around him and some of your girl friends. And then be obvious that your trying to hook him up with someone, so e gets the picture that you arent interested.
**_Nicole_**
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Ask him or if your friends with his friends ask hid friends to ask him. if they say he does like you go up to him and tell him that you heard that he likes you and tell him maybe later you can his gf but right now you only want to be freinds with benifits
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