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I feel ignored by my best friend...
My best friend and i are really really close at home... but not at school... she kinda ignores me. Its not as bad this year as it was last year... but it makes me feel really bad. I've tried to talk to her, but she just ignores it. Maybe i'm pmsing or something.... i don't know... advice would be great though!
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well, not to seem bad or anything, but I sort of treat a friend like that. It's just I feel like I'm maturing, and she's not, and I mean I don't mind hangin with her around the house, it's just that were totally different, and so I'm not always totally into hangin with her, and we have different friends in school and stuff, so it's akward for me. Maybe your friend feels something like that. Confront her, and see whats going on.
I just don't want to hurt my friends feelings because we practically share backyards, so I see her EVERYDAY, so it would be so weird not being friends with her, or not hanging with her.
So why don't you see how she feels, and be prepared it might be something you don't want to hear.
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Dear i feel ignored by my best friend,if your friend acts like this at school and she ignores you on purpose than shes not a real friend.No friend should treat a friend like this.Have you told her how you feel?If you havent maybe you should.If she acts as if she doesnt care,then maybe you should start hanging out with another friend.dont allow her to act as if your nobody at school and then trick you into thinking your her friend at home.everyone is created equal and no one is better than anyone else.
sincerely,carolineh
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Some times in school friends back off of other friends becuz they want some space to make new friends and maybe her new friends dont like you or they just dont know you. You know that sort of thing. Not that your a bad person or n e thing but yea... thats might be whats goin on!
Later*
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this is a really difficult stage (im guessing your junior high/highschool...if not sorry!!) i have a situation kinda like this but its a little different. its sounds like your freind is trying very hard to be popular and make new freinds, but that is no reason for her to ignore you. what i would do is either when the two of you are alone one time at your or her house, sit her down and tell her that this isnt to hurt you, but you are hurting me, and i want to keep this freindship, i feel neglected and i feel that you dont want me around at school. tell me right know what it wrong. Be seriouse woth her. either that or do it in a joking way or give hints. i hope that made sence. hope i could help!!
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ask her when yall are at home ...see what she says maybe shes tryin to impress someone?!
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