im 5'5 blue eyes and what not i like to sing and dance. i have the coolest friends alive and im a good listener i always help people out and i think i could giv so pretty good advice... i might not have experianced EVERYTHING. but i have been through alot and i could help
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Hey, I have a gf, and she says she loves me, and we have been going out for about a week. The only times she says "I love you" is on the computer. I even say it when we are in person and she doesn't say it back... she has told me her feelings and she says she really loves me, and she is like crazy about me, but my question is: How come she won't say it back? (link)
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sometimes its really hard for a girl to express her emotions towards a guy shes really into, partly because shes scared of rejection or even falling for a guy to hard just to get herself hurt.tell her how you feel about the situation and tell her you really care about her and you want her to be comfortable around you. hope it helped!
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so my best friend and i have dated before and we broke up because me and his guy friends didnt get along too well.. he REALLy likes me now and im starting to like him a lot and me and his 'guy friends' are actually really close this year. i guess imjust scared to get hurt again cuz i really put myself out there last time... help?? (link)
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ok i find myself in the same situation. about scared of gettin hurt and all. but if his guy friends and you are really close and he really likes you chances are things will go alot better this time. trust me if the friends like you its a total plus, there is nothin like the bond between a guy and his boys. but if you dont try youll never know what could have happened and you'll be stuck wondering 'what if' and thats really upseting. so give it a chance.. just be a little careful at first. good luck and have fun!
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alright this guys..lets say collin and he and i are best friends. but when im not around he'll go around and ask my other friends where im..but when i get there he'll like ignore me! then last night we were at a party and he was flirting with me..then the next minute hes flirting with this other girl..but looking at me well doing it! i mean does he like me or not?! cause i really like him..but i dont kno if i should keep liking him! also he has a girlfriend and they have been going out for 5 months..but they havent kissed or anything. (link)
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this guy seems like he doesnt exactly know what he wants. i think he flirts with other girls to see if you get jealous, but then again he has a girlfriend. if hes asking people about you he must have some intrest and when hes around you doesnt know how to express the way he feels. guys and girls that are friends can either have really good relationships or bad ones that ruin the friendship... so just watch out and good luck... i think he likes you, and tell him how you feel you might be suprised
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I have this boyfriend, he's a great guy and everything but hes REALLY shy. He hasn't held my hand or anything. I know he likes me a lot and I also like him a lot. His shyness is hard to deal with because I am completely opposite. All of his friends have told him that he needs to be less shy and I told him there is no reason to be shy around me because I'm not going to get mad at him or anything but he is still shy! Its killing me!! What to do?! Thanks for the help!!! Have a nice day! :D (link)
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it depends on how long yall have been together. if it hasnt been long give him time maybe hes a little un-easy about things and isnt sure where to draw the lines with you. all relationships are different so you need to take time to figure out the comfort zone. . . even though after a while there shouldnt need to be a " comfort zone " because y'all should become comfortable. also think about he may not have had a girlfriend before and its new to him or maybe he has and just hasnt had a serious relationship with these kinds of feelings involved. talk to him about it and let him know where you stand if in time he doesnt eventually come around, maybe hes just a shy person... but he should lossen up
hope i helped
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Hey, i'm a 15 year old girl turning 16 n a few months. I'v never had confidence in myself and to be conpletely honest i kinda hate myself. I think im fat and ugly and i try to lose weight but nothings good enough.I'v never had a boyfriend in my life let alone had a guy tell me im pretty. My friends are pretty and they always have guys asking them out but i juss feel stupid hangin with them sometimes, like i dont belong. For the past few years i have resorted to cuttig myself. I'v only done it 3 times but i dont wanna go to counscling or anything cuz my parents and every1 will think im crazy i dunno what to do can you help me? (link)
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the only person that can TRULY help you is yourself. your friends and family can guide you and be there for you but its really up to you as hard as it is. and believe me i know this first hand. you may think these things about yourself but you shouldn't confidence and personality is what makes a girl beautiful. as for cutting if you wanna be pretty cutting leaves scars and its a day to day reminder of what you are going through or have been through and you will never get better if you are constantly reminded of it, its also ugly. but if you've cut three times it will lead to more. you may promise youself its the last time but it's hard to stop. so tell someone maybe to a counsler but to a close friend you trust.
i hope i helped and good luck!!
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I have a pretty hard life, it's not easy in this town. I always have alot on my mind, but since last year I've been counting on beer to clear my mind...I wanted to know why a little alcohol makes me think about nothing...even when I'm not drunk? (link)
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alcohol usualy calms you. weather you're drunk or not. it has some chemical that like balances everything out or something like that
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ok lets start at the beginning! my friend's sister's ex boyfriend is staying in her house until he finds a place/job whatever. so the sister doesnt stay there shes in college and last night he got really drunk and my friend was the only one in the house.. he came in her room and he fingered her. she doesnt know what to do someone give me advice to give her!! thank you!! (link)
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... you need to be there for her. and tell her too tell her mom or sister. atleast she told you. but she may not be ready to tell, let her know that if she doesnt stop it now it could get way worse b4 its all over. i hope everything works out. good luck to you and her
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14/f/9th grade
Ok my ex is stopping me from having a bf...
His friends like me and they wanna go out w/me, but they couldn't do that 2 him. This makes no sense b-c his friends say that he doesn't like me anymore, and we went out in 7th grade so I don't hink he likes me anymore! What should I do b-c I really want a bf right now, but HE kind of is stopping that...my life sux..HELP ME PLEASE! I will rate ya 5...seriously!
-cOnFuSeD-
P.S. I was in love w/this boy, and now I am like so over him, so what does this mean? (link)
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i have a friend that is doing the same thing to her ex - boyfriend. its drivin him insane... if you like someone go for it but a relationship between guys is strong. and chances are you're life really doesnt suck you're just in a pit im in one too and i want a boyfriend and guys are just confusin. and if you think you were in love with him and arent any more chances are it wast a real love . love is also a confusin thing and it really sucks how the feelings that you have those like wonderful feelings can be there one day and the next they're gone
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ok well lately ive really had the urge to have sex. im a female and gonna be 15 soon and i know its too early but i dont know what to do. i dont even know how to have sex but ive been having dreams about it and everything. i dont want to be a slut! please help (link)
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everyone has the urge and thinks about it at some point. dont just give it up to some random guy... make sure he's special. dont be forced into anything you dont wanna do. but kids are mean expecially around our age and most likely if you do chose to have sex, someone not everyone but there will be people who call you a slut... it sucks i know sex is a hard topic. but do what you want to and what feels right for you
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