so my best friend and i have dated before and we broke up because me and his guy friends didnt get along too well.. he REALLy likes me now and im starting to like him a lot and me and his 'guy friends' are actually really close this year. i guess imjust scared to get hurt again cuz i really put myself out there last time... help??
megibooxO answered Saturday November 20 2004, 6:57 pm: ok i find myself in the same situation. about scared of gettin hurt and all. but if his guy friends and you are really close and he really likes you chances are things will go alot better this time. trust me if the friends like you its a total plus, there is nothin like the bond between a guy and his boys. but if you dont try youll never know what could have happened and you'll be stuck wondering 'what if' and thats really upseting. so give it a chance.. just be a little careful at first. good luck and have fun! [ megibooxO's advice column | Ask megibooxO A Question ]
cutebrunette answered Saturday November 20 2004, 12:40 am: I think you should go out with him. It seems you are getting to get along with his guy friends and he likes you and you are starting to like him so, i think you should go for it!
babiigurl076 answered Friday November 19 2004, 11:51 pm: I've answered something like this before..my friends' motto *If you're not willing to risk it all, you don't want it bad enough* don't dwell over how scared you are about getting hurt again, b/c then you might never get over that fear. I say give him a second chance..I believe everyone deserves a second chance in most cases. Hope I helped! goodluck! -Amber [ babiigurl076's advice column | Ask babiigurl076 A Question ]
LilMia811 answered Friday November 19 2004, 11:48 pm: just think about it long and hard. analyze all the facts. make sure that if you get back with him it will be worth it tis time. talk to him and let him know, i like you alot still, but im scared i will put all of me into you like i did last time and just end up a heart broken fool all over again. make sure that getting back with him this time will be taking a step forward and not a step back. [ LilMia811's advice column | Ask LilMia811 A Question ]
sullivanstreet answered Friday November 19 2004, 11:46 pm: Tell him about how last year you were really hurt when you two broke up and that you loved being close with him and going out with him and now that he wants to go out again its scaring you because your not sure if you will get hurt or not. Basically just tell him everything you just said up there. And he will probably understand and everything will work out great. Hope I helped. Please rate me. Good Luck! [ sullivanstreet's advice column | Ask sullivanstreet A Question ]
Attention: NOTHING on this site may be reproduced in any fashion whatsoever without explicit consent (in writing) of the owner of said material, unless otherwise stated on the page where the content originated. Search engines are free to index and cache our content. Users who post their account names or personal information in their questions have no expectation of privacy beyond that point for anything they disclose. Questions are otherwise considered anonymous to the general public.