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ok lets start at the beginning! my friend's sister's ex boyfriend is staying in her house until he finds a place/job whatever. so the sister doesnt stay there shes in college and last night he got really drunk and my friend was the only one in the house.. he came in her room and he fingered her. she doesnt know what to do someone give me advice to give her!! thank you!!
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... you need to be there for her. and tell her too tell her mom or sister. atleast she told you. but she may not be ready to tell, let her know that if she doesnt stop it now it could get way worse b4 its all over. i hope everything works out. good luck to you and her
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omg..that is assault...woah..ok..he is what how old??and yor friend is how old..can you say assault on a minor. wow..you have got to tell an adult..and yor sister..she has got to get that RAPIST out of the house..now..wow...this is serious...you need a professional to help you with this.
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Did she want him to finger her? If so, she's going to have to work through the awkward after effects and try to make clearer decisions in the future.
If she did not want him fingering her, and did not give her consent, then she has been molested. She'll want to tell her parents so that the guy in question is kicked out, and she might want to press charges.
Hopefully her parents will make him leave immediately, but if they give him a day or so to move out, she'll want to stay clear of him. If she has to stay in the house at night, she'll want to lock her door and possibly sleep with a phone near her so she can call for help if things get serious.
First and foremost, she needs to tell her parents what happened. Nothing good can come from keeping it to herself.
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Wow! Why'd she let him do that! She needs to tell an adult or something or talk to that guy about what he did and how she doesn't appreciate it! He shouldn't be doing that when she doesn't want him to! I hope I helped! -Kayla
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Go to an adult and tell them the whole story. Get her parents to get him out of the house immediately. Whatever you do, dont just let it go. Get help and get something done about this dude. Sounds like trouble to me.
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