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My Ex...problems!
14/f/9th grade
Ok my ex is stopping me from having a bf...
His friends like me and they wanna go out w/me, but they couldn't do that 2 him. This makes no sense b-c his friends say that he doesn't like me anymore, and we went out in 7th grade so I don't hink he likes me anymore! What should I do b-c I really want a bf right now, but HE kind of is stopping that...my life sux..HELP ME PLEASE! I will rate ya 5...seriously!
-cOnFuSeD-
P.S. I was in love w/this boy, and now I am like so over him, so what does this mean?
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i have a friend that is doing the same thing to her ex - boyfriend. its drivin him insane... if you like someone go for it but a relationship between guys is strong. and chances are you're life really doesnt suck you're just in a pit im in one too and i want a boyfriend and guys are just confusin. and if you think you were in love with him and arent any more chances are it wast a real love . love is also a confusin thing and it really sucks how the feelings that you have those like wonderful feelings can be there one day and the next they're gone
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First of all, when things end with people, you get over them. That's how the world works. If you were to sit around pining for people, you're life would be ruined. So, you're perfectly normal in being over your ex.
Next, his friends are just trying to be good friends to him. Or perhaps they are using him as an excuse - they might not want to date you, and he's a handy reason to say if they don't want to hurt your feelings.
My advice? There are plenty of boys in the world who are not friends with your ex. Find some of them - and find one would would really want to date you, no matter what.
It any of those guys really liked you, they'd talk to your ex and things would be fine. Sounds to me like he's just an excuse, or they are just too immature for a relationship.
Good luck.
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Well, that's gay if his friends won't date you after 2 yrs that you and your ex haven't dated. Maybe though that he told his friends that he didn't want any of them to date any of his ex's and they have that promise with eachother. Just see how goes in the future and maybe one day you will end up dating one of them. -Kayla
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well talk to him and say that it's been 2 years and he shud move on n u just cant fall out of love..u either love some1 or dont
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It doesn't really matter what your ex says unless you two are really good friends now. And plus, ya'll aren't going out anymore, it's not his decision. So you go out with whoever you want. But here's the thing, do you really like one of his friends? Because what you said was you just really want a boyfriend right now. If you do like one of them, tell your ex-boyfriend that he's not your boyfriend anymore so he needs to mind his own buisness.Maybe you just thought it was love, it might have been just a huge crush, and you really really really liked him. Well, Hope I helped.
-tori
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I think that ur ex would get really jealuose if u got a bf and might think that u belong to him, but it shouldn't matter wat he says if u want a bf then go ahead and get one, cuz if u don't then u will end up regreting it farther in life. So if u want a bf then go for it. Don't let him stop u from wat u want.
Hope I helped!!
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you changed your mind you will for a long time till you find that one what you think is love really isnt but tell this boy that you can chose for your self and if his friends wont go out with you cuse of him just forget about them
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Dear Confused,
You should NEVER EVER EVER go ouut with one of your ex's friends. I mean, that's too close to home. Don't be desparate (not saying you are) to find and get into a relationship. When you look for a relationship, it seems as though everything is off the market. When you stop looking, the stock comes flooding in. Know wht I'm trying to say. Anyway, find some other field to play in. Even if you two do hook up, your ex is only going to cause problems anyway. When you hang out with your bf, you'll be hanging out with your ex.
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Well, about your p.s. maybe your just grew away or his personality or attitude changed, or maybe yuu just moved on and started likeing other guys. Anyway, to your question, my best suggestion is to talk to him and find out whats up with him not letting yuu date other guys or whatever. Or maybe talk to one of his friends again and see what they can tell yuu. Well, good luck. Hope ii helped!
Muahsz . Kaite
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well do u think that maybe that yeah they do like u and wanna go out with u but friends are more imporant than havin a girlfriend who ur friend went out with or maybe he still likes u and thay know that if they go out with u than he would get mad and he ain't stopin u u just forget about him and find someone who doesn't hang out with him and that means that it wasn't love maybe u thought that but it isn't there are alot of boyz out there and one u will fall in love it just hasn't happen yet...
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Y dont u try n get a bf that isnt friend with ur ex, then he cant say nethin to stop u. Relationships with exs friends r always dodgy cuz they get scared ull compare them n u wil! Find some1 u really like n get wiv them.
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ok look at it like this, how would you feel if you of your friends went out with an EX of yours. dont you think that would be kidna odd + some guys are really close to their buddies and yeah you might want to find yourself a guy that isnt really close to your EX trust me i know what you are tlaking about i had been in a situation kinda like that but not really
GOOD LUCK SWEETHEART
_lisa "socalblondie0202"
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