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whats a good name for a new fish?

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anything that comes to mind


okay..i want to get a puppy but ive never had any animal before except a fish and i hated it so i let it die, anyways i have no idea how to take care of a puppy cuz i wanna get it when its little but i dont want it going to the bathroom all in the house but what do i do in the winter? but the real ? here is what type of dog should i get, i want a really cute one, i did want a little weiner dog but i dont know, i know that i want a really little dog but chiwawas are mean and yappers so what should i get? and also what would be some really cute names with that dog? i would get a girl one of whatever help! (and dont tell me ugly dogs and no poodles) (link)
i love the name Lady Belle but that the name of the doggis up to you Yorkys p to much inside and out i have a big dog and she is really good with doing her job outside but it is my yorky that is having truble and she is 3 years old in human years she got kicked out of puppy boot camp and had to stay a extra week at this other place but they are really cute and joyfull


when is the best time to get your puppy nuetered? I have a puppy and he is like starting to hump his stuffed animal dogs..lol (link)
the best time is when the dog is a year old


i have this dog who is two years old, and i love him sooo much. the problem is, he has gotten my other dog pregnant twice, and each tie we had a horrible time trying to give the puppies away. My parents are furious, and they want to castrate him. i just cant bear the though of him losing his gender! just in case any of you know, what happens when you castrate a dog? are there any side effects? (link)
no it is prefectly normal to do that


okay well.. im straight edge... and i didnt want to have sex. and hes older. and i told him it was ok,. weve been together 7 months. i guess i thought i wouldnt mind? or maybe i thought he wouldnt do it. but he did. and now i just dont know if i can trust him. or if i should try and get revenge. and it sucks cause the girl was/is? my friend and i told him how much i hated when the would flirt. so i just dont know what to do? should i dump him? should i ignore it? pretend not to care? get revenge? any advice at all would be great.
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you should dump him that is not what a real boyfriend should do but he might go amd try to hook up with your um friend but you should also talk with this friend because she shouldnt have gone to bed with him in the first place he is your boyfriend


omg..im really stressing right now..i was going thru my moms make up drawer, which i usually never go thru because i dont wear make up, and i foud a tiny package of WEED..i also found an already smoked joint...i dunno what to do i really dont wanna talk to her about it because..i dunno i would just rather not..how should i handle this personally?
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even if you dont want to talk to her you should i know there is not much to tell just that you dont want her doing weed but you need to at least tell someone that can talk to her if you need more imformation about weed go on the internet just to make it clear that what she is doing isnt only aganst tha law but can kill her


hi i just got my first period two days ago and since then ive had like 40 bottles of water but only one salad, im just not hungry at all! is it normal
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yes that is ok differnt girls go through that differently some eat alot of chocolet and others are in really bad moods


14/f/9th grade

Ok my ex is stopping me from having a bf...

His friends like me and they wanna go out w/me, but they couldn't do that 2 him. This makes no sense b-c his friends say that he doesn't like me anymore, and we went out in 7th grade so I don't hink he likes me anymore! What should I do b-c I really want a bf right now, but HE kind of is stopping that...my life sux..HELP ME PLEASE! I will rate ya 5...seriously!

-cOnFuSeD-

P.S. I was in love w/this boy, and now I am like so over him, so what does this mean? (link)
you changed your mind you will for a long time till you find that one what you think is love really isnt but tell this boy that you can chose for your self and if his friends wont go out with you cuse of him just forget about them


okay, last year [my sophomore yr now im a junior], i had A TON of friends in each one of my classes..and i got to be REALLY close with them.like in each class i would have like 1-2 really really close friends who i didnt really hang out with at school outside of that class but in that class we always would talk and sometimes we would hang out on weekands...they would always tell me their boy/fam problems, and i would ALWAYS be there for them and give them adivce..i would even call them after school alot to make sure they were okay.....this year i dont have classes with alota the girls and its like they dont even care about me? theyll walk past me in the hall and smile and say hi but nothing big at all..theyre so unappreciative.. i mean i helped them on sum pretty serious issues they had...i feel so unappreciated and i feel like everything i ever did for them last year was a waiste even though it really helped them...how should i handle this? (link)
you need to talk to them sit them down and tell them you are sad that you are not as close as last year but you want to be and help them with their problems if you are any good at helping people you should be an advicenator it is a way to help others and to spend time i just moved from Tx to Mass and i am having a hard time making friends so this is a great way to get that off your mind and help others


What do I do about an 'old flame' of my wife's that she has emailed recently and that I found out about? The messages back and forth hurt me deeply. I love her very much and she says she loves me and it will never happen again. I believe her but am vulnerable and afraid. I haven't always been the best communicator to her and want to do everything I can to show her how much I still love her, more than when I first met her years ago. The 'old flame' was her first high school sweetheart, way before I met her and I am truly at a loss for what the best way to approach this all is. By the way, we are both in our late 40's. (link)
the only thing to do is talk to her tell her you know what she is doing or get hurt and pratend it never happend


(*Names changed to protect the innocent)
My Boyfriend *Mickie is the so sweet and nice to me! I really like him...he is also very cute. He treats me like a princess. Well before Mickie asked me out i had a big crush on *Ronnie but Mickie asked me out and i forgot about it for awhile. Lately I find myself flirting with Ronnie, and i like it. I am really drawn to him. But i dont want to break up with mickie...he is so nice. (link)
well you have a hard choce to make but the question is yourself can you see yourself dumping the one you like that also likes you? or will you risk it and go for a boy you liked before if i was you i would stay with *Mickie


Hey guys,

When I was in second grade, I got really sick and had to be put in the hospital. Since I wouldn't eat, they gave me streiods. When I got out of the hospital, I wouldn't stop eating and now I am chubby. I want to loose about 10 to 15 pounds and I am just so fed up with my weight! I have been trying to loose for about 3 years but I havn't really been able to stick with really anything. I want to loose some weight as soon as possible. Does anyone know any ways that would be fast and easy? Please help me!! I want to feel beatuiful and confident. I will rate a 10 if someone suggests something good. Please help!!
~Chubby~ (link)
the easyest thing to do is not eat a lot of fat food dont go to fast food places dont sit and watch t.v or sit at a computer all day take walks mybe go to the gym 2 times a week


Sorry it's so long, but I think I might to need to tell a teacher or somebody, can you help me?

A friend told me earlier today, she made me pinky swear that I wouldn't tell a guidence counciler or anything... well she told me she's cutting, or like that she wants to start.
Then by 3rd period... 3rd block, whatever you call it, she said she talked to a friend and said that she decided she doesn't want to cut... I don't think she started, just she talked about wanting to cut, and she said she was suicidal, because she couldn't stand living with her mom, her parents are divorced, and he mom won't let her live with her dad, and her mom won't go to court & let her choose what she wants to do.

Can she change her mind from being suicidal, to having talked to somebody that fast, or should I tell one of my teachers... I have a teacher that I know I can tell anything to. What she made me promise is not to tell anyone, like from guidence or anything.

So what I'm asking is

1.)Is she really over it?

2.)Would I be breaking the promise (I don't care if I am or not, I just want to know if I'm breaking it. if I tell the teacher I mean.)

3.)And Should I tell the teacher?

(she told me around 7am, then around 12ish she told me she talked to a friend and won't cut, and doesn't think she's suicidal. She seemed happy when she told me.)
Thanks for all the help in advance, I appreciate all answers, even if they're rude. (link)
you might need to tell someone like ateacher or there are places on the internet that you can goand get help and they wont know who you are or who you are talking about


my sister keeps going into my room and stealing all of my things and reading my love letters (link)
put a lock on your door and talk to her about it maybe she just wants to know what is happening in your life i know what it is like I'm a twin




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