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friends from last year
okay, last year [my sophomore yr now im a junior], i had A TON of friends in each one of my classes..and i got to be REALLY close with them.like in each class i would have like 1-2 really really close friends who i didnt really hang out with at school outside of that class but in that class we always would talk and sometimes we would hang out on weekands...they would always tell me their boy/fam problems, and i would ALWAYS be there for them and give them adivce..i would even call them after school alot to make sure they were okay.....this year i dont have classes with alota the girls and its like they dont even care about me? theyll walk past me in the hall and smile and say hi but nothing big at all..theyre so unappreciative.. i mean i helped them on sum pretty serious issues they had...i feel so unappreciated and i feel like everything i ever did for them last year was a waiste even though it really helped them...how should i handle this?
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Can you call up one of them that you are the closest too? Ask her why you are not being invited to stuff. Could be that since they all se each other all the time..they just make plans during that class.
Tell them that you miss them and still want to hang out with them.
If they call..great if not...well god news you have a bunch of new classes wiht new people to hook up with.
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Maybe you should talk to them about it. Or try and hang out with them on a weekend & see if there is any friendship there left.
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I know what you mean... and as we get older things and people unfortunately do change... but maybe try making a little bit of an effort. When you see them in the halls smile and say: Hey! Haven't seen you in awile! What are you up to? maybe talk to them online or invite one of them over to hang out... That'll show them that your still there for them no matter what happens... and just so you know true friends are never forgotten. I'm sure they still love you and will always remember the stuff you were there for them through...
Hope I helped!
~Lana
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You will always start to get separated from good friends...I have an awesome quote that a lot of people like... "As we grow up we learn that even the one person that wasnt supposed to ever let you down probably will. You will have your heart broken probably more than once- and its harder every time. Youll break hearts too- so remember how it felt when yours was broken. Youll fight with your best friend. Youll blame a new love for things an old one did. Youll cry because time is passing too fast- and youll eventually lose someone you love. So take many pictures, laugh too much and love like youve never been hurt- because every sixty seconds you spend upset is a minute of happiness you can never get back.."
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you need to talk to them sit them down and tell them you are sad that you are not as close as last year but you want to be and help them with their problems if you are any good at helping people you should be an advicenator it is a way to help others and to spend time i just moved from Tx to Mass and i am having a hard time making friends so this is a great way to get that off your mind and help others
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Well the best thing to do is to just try talking to them about how yuu feel and stuff. I mean just sitting around or not really doing anything about it isn't going to help at all. So yah, just try and talk to them about it and see what they say. Good luck!
Mauhsz . Katie
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