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he had sex. but not with me..
okay well.. im straight edge... and i didnt want to have sex. and hes older. and i told him it was ok,. weve been together 7 months. i guess i thought i wouldnt mind? or maybe i thought he wouldnt do it. but he did. and now i just dont know if i can trust him. or if i should try and get revenge. and it sucks cause the girl was/is? my friend and i told him how much i hated when the would flirt. so i just dont know what to do? should i dump him? should i ignore it? pretend not to care? get revenge? any advice at all would be great.
--thanks
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You should stop being straight-edge.
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If you told him it was OK, then you CAN'T get revenge and you really have no right to be angry. You have the right to have your feelings, but if you act on that anger, it's very irresponsible. In the future, learn from your mistake and apply what you have learned to your relationships. You can't blame the man for doing what you gave permission for. The fact he asked you first and got permission tells me you CAN trust him, too.
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Let me get this straight....your boyfriend had sex with your friend?? Dump him and kick your so called friend's azz to the curb!
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Tell him he can have the skank. You don't need revenge - your lack of STD's and them dieing is revenge enough. Get rid of him and make sure this 'friend' of yours knows that she should have never done anything with this guy. She really is not a good friend whatsoever.
Dump him he is a loser.
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From your question, I am gathering he had sexual relations with your friend. The thing to do is not to get revenge, but to deal with it in a mature way.
You first need to discuss this with him, and get a straight answer from him. It appears to be relationship that neither of you are comfortable with. You want to remain a virgin, and he wants to have sexual relations. I think that you cannot seem to find a middle ground, because obviously he felt he had to cheat on you.
Why would you want to be with a dishonest person anyway? You should find yourself someone who will be honest and true to you.
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dump the loser. no one should ever go behind your back and have sex with your friend. and that's not a very good friend either. you deserve a lot better
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Are you saying they had sex? Write me back if that's what your talking about. Sorry it confused me. -Kayla
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he had sex w. ur friend n u want to pretend not care? OMG i wud kill them well ok not kill them but bee soooo freakin madd
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you should dump him that is not what a real boyfriend should do but he might go amd try to hook up with your um friend but you should also talk with this friend because she shouldnt have gone to bed with him in the first place he is your boyfriend
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yeah dump him, hes a jerk and if you stay with him he'll think to himself "Oh i can cheat again cuz she'll still be with me" dump him, and beat him up haha or at least dump him, do not stay with him you deserve better!
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Honey if you told him you didnt like him flirting with your friend and then he goes and screws her. im sorry to say but i would personally dump him. I mean you told him how you feel and he ignored you I think thats wrong and, even if you told him to go ahead and sleep with someone else he still shouldnt. I hope that this will help you......Luv yaz, Mandy
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