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ok.. so this boy ive been really good friends with since 5th grade asked me out at this place we have in our town the teen center to hang out..i told him i'd think about it..but im afraid if i say no he wont be my friend anymore but i dont wanna say yes cuz hes not that cute.. i dont want ppl to make fun of me cuz he is ugly but hes reealy sweet& nice.. what should i do?
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Wow, you are really shallow! And yall are friends?? If you like him then go out with him, but you may lose his friendship if you say no or he will ignore you a while or a long time... I hoped i helped!! :)
xO Chelsea Ox
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i understand how u feel but that is kind of shallow. this guy i went out with who was really ugly was really great and i loved him so much and everyone always made fun of how ugly he was but i delt with it bc i loved him soo much. if u like him u should go out with him, i dont think u should care about how he looks. hope i helped ~stef~
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u can always just go together as friends. if u dont want peeps 2 make fun of u 2 then tell him that. if he is really sweet like that then he'll understand. hope i helped ya!
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ok that waz the most ignorant thing i ever heard!!! u dont people 2 make fun of u if u go out with him cuz u think he is ugly.
omg can u say shallow much???
sry but the truth hurts
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Okay. He's not cute...uhhh, sorry is it just me or are you being slightly shallow? Don't not date the guy cause he's not all that good looking. Ask yourself this, do you like him as more than a friend? Yes? Then go out with him. If you don't then just tell him straight. Tell him you want him as a friend and no more. Seeing as he likes you, I doubt he'd stop being your friend. And about the whole 'I don't want people to make fun of me thing.' If you really like him, then don't let it get to you because all that matters is how YOU feel about him not the others okay?
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i'd say no if i were you, you're obviously not willing to get past his appearance, no matter how "sweet & nice" he is... don't worry about it tho... if he's as nice as you say he is, he'll get over it... but please, when you think a guy is sweet and nice, don't base your opinions of him on his appearance, how would you like it if that happened to you?
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yea that makes u sound really shallow... looks don't matter give the boy a chance!
-xoXo*Katie
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Give him a chance! Looks aren't everything hun, unless you're incredibly shallow. Don't worry about what other people have to say about you hanging out with someone that's not the hottest guy in school! If he's really as sweet& nice as you say, I say go for it. Everyone deserves a chance:]
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Personaly i think you should say yes because its not all about his looks.You also shouldn't care what other people think. If hes sweet and nice to you go for it.
<3 Sweetone <3
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you should say yes for you! dont think about what everone else will think. it shouldnt matter what other ppl think of you or who your going out with. and the person doesnt have to be cute to go out with him! you like them for who they are on the inside not the outside! hope ive helped
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And you call yourself a good friend?????A good friend would never had to ask this question,they would have went out (AS FRIENDS OR GF)no matter what other people say!!!!I hope your sweet nice friend doesn't find out how you really feel.
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I think you should go out with him,because, he may not be the cutest boy ever, but if hes nice GO FOR IT!! hope i helped :)
Thank you.
Victoria
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k first of all u shudnt judge ppl by how they look just cuz ur insecure that ppl will make fun of u. go with him as a friend but not as a gf. tell him that the reason u dont wanna be his gf is cuz u dont want it to affect ur relationship
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Do you wanna go with this boy and are you jut afraid of what people will think?
Because if that's the case then it REALLY isnt worth making your self unhappy because of what they will think! If you say no a few months down the line you might start to regret it but he isn't gaurenteed to still like you then and that could really mess up your friendship!
On the other hand if you just don't fancy him explain to him when you are both alone that you really like him but don't wanna risk losing your friendship over this. He might find it hard but eventually he will understand.
I know from personal experience what relationships can do to friendships. It's not nice, unless you KNOW that if the worst happens and one of you dumps the other you could get over it and stay friends i would seriously not risk it.
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That has to be the worst excuse not to date someone in the history of excuses. Turn him down. If he gets mad at you, I don't blame him.
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