well you see.
i met a guy named Chris over summer.
and he changed my life.
honestly.
i cant go one day without thinking about him
but the whole point is.
he doesnt like me or love me like I love him!!!
i love him with every beat of my heart, and he barely even wants to talk to me.
its been 10 months and i still havent been able to get over him!
its crazy
just when i think i found someone better than him, i change my mind and its driving me insane.
i want him sooo bad.
i NEED him in my life...
what do i do??
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-thank you!-
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? Ghelp answered Tuesday January 24 2006, 9:29 pm: Alright im gonna try and help you out on this one. I have been in this situation before. Usually if you like someone this much and can't get them out of your head your showing your affection to them and they are turned off by your fascination with them. I know it's a bit peculiar...but that's just how most people are. If you think about it you might have been like that to someone as well. The only way i can think that you can get his attention or affection is by turning your self away from his presence. He is exhausted from you and your seeking him out or talking to him. It is a sure sign that you are fond of him. Which means you are no different from alot of girls maybe. So just distance yourself (not saying stop thinking about him, if you can stop thats awesome). When he sees the way you act he will be interested and wonder y you aren't the same. He will question himself and most likely come to you because it boosted his self esteem and he wants that back. That's just the way most guys are... So don't show any flirtation signs...just be friendly when he comes to you. That should work. I'm not saying he will fall in love with you...but you will get him to seek you out im sure. Don't try to hard...Fate has an awesome way of deciding things...you just need to do more productive things to keep you busy and take your mind off of this crush. Alrighty i know it's tough...but if you succeed then great reward will present itself to you. GOOD LUCK! Have any other questions just ask me. I have myspace also www.myspace.com/truedreams. [ Ghelp's advice column | Ask Ghelp A Question ]
mookie answered Tuesday January 24 2006, 8:02 pm: Get a Hobby.really you have to find something or someone to take your mind off this guy...If he doesn't want you why on earth do you still want him? get over it. [ mookie's advice column | Ask mookie A Question ]
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