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well me and my friends have been friends since middle school. now they all see to have started leaving me out. not asking for plans. barally talkign to me in the halls, talkign to me like only if its convienent for them. even my best friend now has a boyfriend and she does not make time for me and i ask her all the time for plans but yet it seems as though she has plans for them. im so lonely. i recently stoped talkign to the kid i like. and we stoped hooking up, and i have no one. please dont say that i should go make other friends. cuz this is highschool, its not that easy. those are my friends. i just dont now what to do anymore. i hate sittin ghome and being alone.
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Well that's what happens. As you get older, you tend to lose your friends because they start changing and getting new friends. I lost pretty much over half of my elementary school friends but what I did was I replaced those friends with new friends whenever I entered Middle School. And then once I replaced those friends, I wanted more. I know it's tough to make new friends in High School, but you gotta try a little. Just start talking to someone that you could think be a new friend. Don't be discouraged if they might not talk alot at first and everything, but just be friendly =] But also with your old friends, try talking to them explain to them your feelings and how you miss them all hanging out with you. The friend with the boyfriends understandable. Girls tend to spend all the time they can with their boyfriends and lose friendships with their friends. But just keep trying to make plans with her and then if it's still not happening then talk to her. I hope I helped.
Love,
MELii
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I kind of did this to my friend.. it was unitentially but i was soo buisy. You should go up to them and make plans. Maybe have a once a week movie night or something. Then you can get to know their friends and make new ones to hang with without actually making new ones. They will realize your important. Confront them also, they are your friends they never want to hurt you. Also PLEASE DON'T CUT OR ANY THING that made me so hurt when my friend did :[
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ok i feel like this all the time and wat i do is ignore who ever is ignoring me dont talk to them and then like i go to the mall and blow all my savings on really cute shoes or shirts and then i get a hobby possibly a job start going to the gym or somthing to take up time you'll forget all about that they are ignoring you because you'll be and at that new job you might even make a friend.
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well what I have to say or that is this sometimes my friends like to give me the cold shulder and they do like to leave me out and I am going to say that maybe you should do what I do call them if there is no answer teel their mother or leave a message and say well i really need to talk to you it's important. Now if she/he calls you back just talk to her/him and just express how you are feeling.now if she does not call you back just see her in school and don't see her and meet some new friends now don't leave her though by meeting new friends she will be interested and want to meet them especially if there is a cute boy in that group.Lol but all I have to say is if she has to much stuff to do that she can't hang out with you or they can't hang out you do not nned them anyways hope you feel better.
elisha
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Why don't you throw a party, tell your friend that she can invite her boyfriend or not even a party, you can just all go to town or something. I know what it's like to be left out, it hurts and you become lonely. It's one of the worst feelings in the world. Chin up and try your best to sustain the friendships you have.
x Steph x
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“The happiest of people don’t necessarily have the best of everything… They just make the most of everything!” I've just lost a best friend, and i thought it was the end of the world for me, it was just us too all the time, we did everything together. But being apart of her made me realise that theres more to life. Meeting new people and making new friends was the best decision i made. Just think to yourself "Its there loss." Your not going to gain anything by wishing your friends where there with you, dont hold yourself back, everyday is a new day, go out with the people around you. I wish u all the happiness!
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if they don't invite you..INVITE THEM. invite them to hangout anywhere fun like movies, mall, throw a party with everyone then people will want to hang out with you. if they still keep up the same attitude, find friends who will appreciate you.
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No offence, but they don't seem like the greatest of friends, although I've been in the same situation. Perhaps you should try to get together with all of them for a trip to the movies or something like that - try to repair your friendship with them before you drift too far apart. If they still don't seem interested then you should try to find other people (I know it's difficult but if your previous friends don't seem interested then it may be the only option)
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