Okay, I learned about advicenators from my friend you might know her as Jessica13. I am 13 and also have boy problems so i probably can't help you too much with that but i can tell u what i think would be ur best bet. I hope i can help u.
E-mail: Carblover2021@cs.com
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Location: I'm form Holt,MO
Occupation: I work at my dad's restraunt busing tables(I'm only 13 what do u want from me)
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ok well my "x" friend is like talking about my bff and she thinks im not mad at her n im not but my bff shes making funof thinks i am but i dont wanna be mad at her i still want to be her friend how do i tell my 4 bffs who hate her (link)
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okay first of all ignore wat they are saying and second tell her your not mad at her and tell those 4 bffs that hate her that you dont and you still want to be her friend and if they get mad at you well they need to learn that they cant control you
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14/f
all my friends (that are girls) are prettier than me ! especially my bestfriend ! she is like perfecttt ! she has the perfect face, the perfect hair, she is a perfect cheerleader, and she has the perfect body
.. and me well im skinny so im not that big-chested .. and well my hair never comes out as good as hers and i have the worst smile.. like i got braces and my teeth are straight .. but their reallly big and my smile isnt a good smile.. ALL my friends have good smiles and are pretty and outgoing and the boys like them..
like i mean i dont think im UGLY .. but compared to them i feel like i am ..
i just need something to help me gain more self-confidence and stop me from being so self-conscious about the way i look and i want to be more outgoing like my friends
is it wierd that i'm jealous of my friends? what can i do so i wont be jealous anymore? (link)
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ok most people think they look worse than they actually do so once you get your braces off you'll look better and for your hair color it use lots of conditioner and im not that big chested either but there are still some guys that like me
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well me and my friends have been friends since middle school. now they all see to have started leaving me out. not asking for plans. barally talkign to me in the halls, talkign to me like only if its convienent for them. even my best friend now has a boyfriend and she does not make time for me and i ask her all the time for plans but yet it seems as though she has plans for them. im so lonely. i recently stoped talkign to the kid i like. and we stoped hooking up, and i have no one. please dont say that i should go make other friends. cuz this is highschool, its not that easy. those are my friends. i just dont now what to do anymore. i hate sittin ghome and being alone. (link)
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ok i feel like this all the time and wat i do is ignore who ever is ignoring me dont talk to them and then like i go to the mall and blow all my savings on really cute shoes or shirts and then i get a hobby possibly a job start going to the gym or somthing to take up time you'll forget all about that they are ignoring you because you'll be and at that new job you might even make a friend.
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ok person i dont know you so like just answer my question:
i am depressed because i killed a poor defensless rabid animal! tell me what to do before i cry!!!!!!
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dont cry i dont think it was neccesarrily your fault though it was mean to think the tail was a stick so kicking it like a football wasnt very nice and probably earned you a name like i dont know "Coon-Killer"
By the way i dont know you micki
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Ok, so me and my ex didn't have a really good relationship. I guess you could say I was emotionally/verbally abused. Well, its been 2 months and I'm still in love with him. I can't get over him no matter how much i try. I know i need to get over him, he lied and cheated on me soo much, and i cried so much. I was never happy the whole time we were going out, i even went back to cutting. Anyways, i know i need to get over my ex, and i have another boyfriend. We've only been going out for 3 weeks, and he's already told me he loves me. Well, i don't feel the same. i know it's not fair to my boyfriend to still have feelings for someone else, but why should i not go out with someone that i really like, and like be alone? blah, i don't know what i'm asking. advice? (link)
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So your not happy with your ex gone you were never happy with him and you love him. What i would do is erase every memory of him, dump the guy who said he loved you hes moving too fast and stay off boys for a while.
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I don't know if I have overactive bladder or not. I go to the bathroom once in the morning, 2-3 times at school, and maybe 3 times after school. Sometimes I get a little bit of pee in my underwear, or I leak when I can't use the bathroom right away. At first I just thought it was discharge (I've had my period for almost three years) but I get it a lot now. I don't know what's wrong with me... any answers please? Oh yeah, please don't say to ask my doctor (because I will), just give me an opinion on what you think.
I rate five for decent answers! (link)
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Ok it sounds like you do have an overactive bladder. So try to go to the bathroom in between every class. Try to cut back on how much you drink until you go to tyhe doctor
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Hi, I am a 17 yr old male who has a problem. My g/f head over heels in love with me. She claims, that if she could, she would marry me and have my children. The only thing is that I don't love her. I just like her a lot, but nowhere near to love. I used to say that I love her though I didn't mean it. Over the summer I admitted to her the truth sbout my feelings for her. Thinking this would driver her away, it only brough her closer. She is glad that I am able to tell her the truth on how I feel because she feels it brings us closer. We are curently intimate in the act of sex. I have always wondered if I am in it because of sex. My question is should I stay with her, and if I do, is it right for us to be having sex? (link)
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Your 17 sex happens no you should not stay with her if you do not love her it is giving her the illusion that you might one day love her as much as she loves you. Break it off you will be doing her a favor its not fair to be using her like that and you cant stay with her forever
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well
i have a crush on this guy (Lets callhim bob) and we both happen to be going to the freshers party next week.
he said to his mates he wanted to get with me and they told me.
BUT
my best friend just told she fancies bob but she dosent know i fancy him too.
and she is also coming to this freshers party only because she knows im going and so is bob
i REALLY dont know what to do.
should i tell her i like him or shall i wait to the party and see what happens?
xoxox
i rate 5's (link)
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Ok so you say bob likes you or that is atleast what his friends told you. You tell your friend that you like bob too but he is the one who gets to decide make a pact that if one of you gets chosen the other one will not interupt the friendship and will hold their resentment quitley.
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Hi…well me and my bf (nikko) had a fight….he always get jealous on me.Even if I talk to somebody like my classmate if it is a guy he gets jealous and he will try to say that he will break up on me but he always say in the end that he cant do that bcoz he loves me…Well tomorrow im going to an occasion with my family but he wants me to stay in the house bcoz he is afraid that I may talk to a guy there…I have promise him that I will not talk to guy there but he always say that I should stay in the house which I cant bcoz every year we go there…I know that I talk to much in a guy, I cant avoid it…I know also that I have hurt him to much…what can I do? I love him so much. I don’t wanna lose him…and I know that he loves me…plz don’t say that I should break up with him,please…
I will rate high,promiz
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OMG too much drama tell him that you might talk to a guy but you love him too much to even think about cheating on him and that you couldnt even stop thinking about him on your trip last year. If you love him that much than by breaking up you would be hurting yourself too.
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Okay.... I have a big question and I dont know what to do.. sooo.. Okay. My mom has this problem that she wont let me date anyone thats 16 and older. I am 14 right now. I was melested when I was 12 by my brothers friend who was 18 at the time. So my mom is paranoid about me having older boyfriends. I think she needs to get through her mind that not ALL guys are the same. She thinks that older guys are more "experienced". So there is this guy. I told my mom alooot about him and I told her that he was a sophmore and he was 15. But then I found out that he was 16!! And like an idiot I told my mom. Now... I like him sooooo much!!!!!!!! He wants to ask me out. What should I say? I like him alot but the thing is is that Ill have to keep it a secret from my mom. (link)
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tell your mom that you like him alot and that he cares about you too and just because hes 16 doesnt mean he'll hurt you and she can meet him if she wants and if she approves you can go out with him and if she doesnt then youll stay friends only friends
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My cousin likes this guy but the thing is I think I kinda like him too. He flirts with both of us but I don't know what to do..either go for him or not to. Last time my cousin broke up with her ex and he wanted to dance with me so I did and she freaked out and ran to the bathroom crying. I can't have that happy again. By the way we're best friends :/ Well he's my age and my cousins only 12 and I'm 14. What do I do? (link)
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Ok since hes your age you sorta have dibs but since your cousin likes him you should see who he likes better and if its you date him. And if your cousin gets mad then explain to her that he liked you more.
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I need your opinion:
I have been love for four years.
I am 17 now.
Some people say I'm too young and others say that seventeen is ld enough to know what you want.
I've always been mature for my age and when I told everyone I was in love at fourteen, needless to say, they didn't believe it. But it has been years and I am still in love.
Do you think I'm "old enough" to be in love? If I am, then wasn't I old enough when I was fourteen because back then, I was sure I would be in love forever and I still am. (link)
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first of all 4 years is not forever! ok your in love and 17 is old enough to make your own desicions but are you sure that person loves you the way you love them? they might be in love with you right now but you cant promise to feel the same way forever!
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Hello...
i recently just broke up with my boyfriend.
now, i am a tom-girl. i hang out with ALL boys. and 2 of my best friends have a crush on me. my boyfriend was not okay with this... at all. he told me he broke up with me because he can't handle me hanging out with 2 boys (that like me) all the time. he just doesn't trust me. and he's already moving on. how can i make him see that i love him, and i only want to be with him? words aren't enough... and i just want him back. (link)
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i get that you love him but if he doesnt trust you than you cant realy show him any guy that you go uot with has to trust you, But if you still want him back tell how many times you rjected those other guys because you would never do that while you were together.
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Ok I have a friend and he 'ACCENDENTLY' hit a guy in the head with a golfball. His head was bleeding terrable and I want to get my friend out of trouble because he already has like 15 more days in detention!! But anyway there are these girls that are preps thats ratting out on him so me and my friends made up a story that he was with us. I don't want my friend suspended and I really want to help him but don't know how. Please Help and sorry iff this sounds weird but NO smartass answerz! (link)
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Ok you want to help your friend understandable say you were with him and those preps are making stuff up your frind didnt mean to hit him in the head and the whole thing is just a misunderstanding and dont say he didnt do it because if you guys get caught youll be in trouble too.
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I am a secondary school student (15 yrs old, female and have been in love with a boy that I know for just over 3 yrs.
Usually we get along really well, though he treats me as nothing more than a good friend.
I am extremely confused, as everytime I get an indication that he thinks of me as more than a friend he will do something unexpected and nasty afterwards, like making a really harsh/cutting comment in front of a group.
He has heard rumours in the past that I fancied him but he has remained a very good friend.
I can be quite insecure sometimes and I wonder if it's my lack of self confidence which is making me confuse his signals (is he giving me the green light?) or whether the fact I adore him is making me read more into his body language. Or his he just sending mixed signals?
Please help! Thanks, UrsulaX (link)
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Well think hes sending you mixed signals. Because if he sounds like he likes you more than a friend and then doing somthing really nasty afterwards either he lkes you and he doesnt want to be in a relationship or he doesnt know how he feels about you.
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