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Do Have I Have A Cat In Hell's Chance Of Getting Together Wi
I am a secondary school student (15 yrs old, female and have been in love with a boy that I know for just over 3 yrs.
Usually we get along really well, though he treats me as nothing more than a good friend.
I am extremely confused, as everytime I get an indication that he thinks of me as more than a friend he will do something unexpected and nasty afterwards, like making a really harsh/cutting comment in front of a group.
He has heard rumours in the past that I fancied him but he has remained a very good friend.
I can be quite insecure sometimes and I wonder if it's my lack of self confidence which is making me confuse his signals (is he giving me the green light?) or whether the fact I adore him is making me read more into his body language. Or his he just sending mixed signals?
Please help! Thanks, UrsulaX
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Seeing how your experience relates to some situations that I have seen before, I think it's safe to say the boy is pretty confused.
He starts warming up to you but when he realizes what he's doing, he makes a harsh comment to distance you again.
I think you should start dropping hints and seeing how he reacts to them.
If he has been friend with you for three years, chances are he's having a hard time coming to terms with the fact that you mean more to him. If you're a pretty close female friend, he probably doesn't want to "ruin it". Guys do that many times because intimate platonic opposite-sex friends are pretty hard to find and they often mean more to them than girlfriends and sex (as hard as it seems to believe).
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It could be very possible he is sending mixed signals which confuse you but you have to figure them out like solving a puzzle you have to put the pieces that fit together just right.He is probably hiding his feelings towards you,wants you to find out or he just thinks of you as a special friend.What I suggest you do is find out who are his other friends like guys,be friends with one of them,you should then ask what your friend of 3 yrs.saids about you,if he likes you, tell him not to tell him about this to just keep it between you,and him.Then you will get out of those mixed signals.
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Well think hes sending you mixed signals. Because if he sounds like he likes you more than a friend and then doing somthing really nasty afterwards either he lkes you and he doesnt want to be in a relationship or he doesnt know how he feels about you.
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If he treats you like a good friend..thats all he thinks of you as. I'd move on.
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