well
i have a crush on this guy (Lets callhim bob) and we both happen to be going to the freshers party next week.
he said to his mates he wanted to get with me and they told me.
BUT
my best friend just told she fancies bob but she dosent know i fancy him too.
and she is also coming to this freshers party only because she knows im going and so is bob
i REALLY dont know what to do.
should i tell her i like him or shall i wait to the party and see what happens?
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Carblover2021 answered Friday October 7 2005, 7:22 pm: Ok so you say bob likes you or that is atleast what his friends told you. You tell your friend that you like bob too but he is the one who gets to decide make a pact that if one of you gets chosen the other one will not interupt the friendship and will hold their resentment quitley. [ Carblover2021's advice column | Ask Carblover2021 A Question ]
bNicolex3 answered Thursday October 6 2005, 10:54 pm: I would tell your friend before the party bc that way if she finds your flirting with him she will know that you cant really help it. <33 [ bNicolex3's advice column | Ask bNicolex3 A Question ]
goodguy132 answered Thursday October 6 2005, 5:46 pm: ok wat you should do is probaly wait and see wat she does at the party if she starts coming onto him run up to him and like start talking to him and drag him awya kinda and if she keeps on tyring you need to have a long conversation with her cause if you were going out or liked him first then its your boy no one can take him away unless he likes them and dumps you but you seem nice so i doubt he will so anyways goodluck i hope i helped [ goodguy132's advice column | Ask goodguy132 A Question ]
ankeagle14 answered Thursday October 6 2005, 3:19 pm: i think you should casually tell your friend that you like him see what she says and see how she and bob act at the party. its up to you, but maybe you should talk to bob too. [ ankeagle14's advice column | Ask ankeagle14 A Question ]
babygirl17 answered Thursday October 6 2005, 1:31 pm: I think that you should tell your friend that you like this Bob person.. Just to let her know.. But also.. I would see how this BOB acts at the party... Who he favors more.... Or if he even has feelings for her.. before you get all down about it... If he favors you more.. is with you more at the party you've got it made.... but... if he favors your friend more... then dont even bother with it... and dont let it get you down.. your young... There are plenty of nice and available guys out there looking for a nice girl... so Keep your head up..
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x_This_Juliet_x answered Thursday October 6 2005, 8:14 am: It's smarter if you told her that you fancy this guy because then she'll know ahead of time so she won't end up doing something to mess your friendship up at the party. If she totally blows off what you said and firts with him loads then you know that that's not that strong of a friendship if she'd push aside your feelings toward this guy. [ x_This_Juliet_x's advice column | Ask x_This_Juliet_x A Question ]
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