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should i trust him?
ok this is long yall but stick with me and i'll rate high. anyway im f/17 and ive been talkin to this guy whose 18. we go to the same school and we kind of started talking about 2 weeks ago. and he seemed like the perfect guy, literally, there was nothing wrong with him. but then he started hearing rumors about me that were so untrue about how im like a slut and stuff. and i told him that he just had to believe me when i say that they are not true because theres nothing else i can say or do to prove that they are not true. and he believed me. it took a little while to get past all of it but we finally did. the thing is though, were not boyfriend and girlfriend, we've just been kind of getting to know eachother in more ways than one. but then today i hear that the whole time that we've been talking, he has a girlfriend! and i was soooo upset at first! and when i went up to him and started yelling at him he told me that it wasnt true. he said theyve been best friends for a long time and stuff but they dont think of each other like that. and i was like "so if i ask her she'll tell me no yall arnt going out?" and he said yes. and then he said youre going to have to believe me like how i believe you. so should i? do ya'll think hes telling the truth? i dont know if i should trust him and give him another chance...please help!
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well he believed you when there was a rumor about you ... i mean c'mon if you really like him do not loose him make sure you know acactley if its true and you can prove it !! b/c if you loose him he will never probebley come back !! soo find out the truth and then if its true then for get about him but if its not true then go bak to where you guys were !!
hope i helped !!
♥ Samra
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You should probably ask her but tell her not to tell him you asked her if you want but it sounds like you realy trust him so you should follow your heart if you even think he's lying you should just break it off but if you don't realy think hes lying you should prolly give him another chance but its realy your choice
hope i helped
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morbid
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If you believe him, then it could lead to heart break if it turns out he lied to you. Whereas if you didn't, he could stop talking to you altogether because it could turn out he was right. So, why not look for signs of a girlfriend (i.e. less time away from you, "too busy" to talk etc..) and then, if it turns out that he lied, it won't hurt as much...
G'luck!
x Steph x
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Hey there,
I think you should give him the chance - after all he gave you one!
He seems like a nice guy. If you are really worried about the relationship between them then why don't you suggest that you all go out for pizza/ a movie or something. He would definitely say NO if she was anything more than a platonic friend and it'll give you a chance to suss her out - you never know you might even end up liking her!
Take Care!
Mel xx
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Hey i think you should believe him, but you should keep an eye on him.. Cuz you never know things might happen.. Anyways you shoudl trust cuz he did trust you when there was rumors about you, so maybe this is just a rumor.
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I think you should but be aware. Don't follow him or anything or act nuts have fun and get to know him. You both have trust and i think you guys will have to much fun together, if not datign as friends [but we all know friends like that turn out to be more ;]. He seems trustworthy and your a smart girl just ask yourself "Would he do this to be." If he is as grande as you say he wouldn't hurt you.
Love is always on your side.
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