This boy I like (ive gone out with him 3 times) came over like 2 days ago and we kissed alot and well he fingered me. Within these two days, he hasn't even called me. He always used to call me..almost everyday. I talked to him online but i dont know things dont feel the same. I don't think he knows I like him but I do A LOT. yeah, he's my first love...dead serious. I don't know what to do..what I'm supposed to say, or anything. I dont thinik he used me because we we're really close before all of this. He acts different around me than all the other girls..like fools around with me and hes like not wicked serious. hes really funny and fun to be around, but hes serious around other girls.So anyways, what am I supposed to do? What should I say to him? I don't wanna call him because I'm just scared to. I don't see him in school, because he doesn't go to the same school. What do i do?? I've been like sad and stuff for a while now :( thanks in advance..I just really need some help
-kate<3
14/f
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? Advicelady6798 answered Monday November 14 2005, 3:04 pm: I think that keeping your mind off of him is the best thing to do. Maybe something serious has happened in his house and he doesnt really want to talk about it. Tink of things that could have given him a reason to be sad enough not to want to talk to anyone. But the only way yu are going to find ot what is wrong with him is to call him or write a letter or doing something that involves talking to him. If you want to keep your mind off of him find something you enjoy doing and do that for awile or focus more ons chool rather than him. [ Advicelady6798's advice column | Ask Advicelady6798 A Question ]
ac_hc14 answered Monday November 14 2005, 12:26 am: Well since this guy hasnt called you since what happend, maybe hes just as scared as you are.. and maybe hes waiting for you to call him.. and if you call him act normal, like nothing happened, and once you comtrable with him then talk about what happened..
iSpEaKsPaNiSh answered Sunday November 13 2005, 11:49 pm: maybe he doesn't know what to say after? i don't know. if he hasn't called you..why not call him? i know it goes against what we girls do..but we all break our own rules all the time. just call him and act like normal and see how it goes. once you know you can talk normal..you can talk about what happened.
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