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Help!!!
I'm very shy but I want to be more outgoing, i'm popular but I think I would be more popular if I was more outgoing, What should I do?
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You must try to indentify what is it about you that makes you shy? Think of today as your last day and you didn't say to someone that you like them or you didn't stick up for yourself or whatever. Wouldn't you be happier knowing that you're last day on this Earth was a good one where you were happy and confident? You have nothing to lose, you're already popular so it's not like you'll lose all your friends. If your friends are confident, try to see what they're doing that you're not!
Best of luck!
x Steph x
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over time, try to talk more and more. even if its just to your friends at first. the trick is to talk to EVERYONE!! hope i helped
ANK
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I used to be the most queit person you could possibly meet, now I say hi to random people walking down the road. I think its a confidence problem, nothing wrong with that it happens to everyone, just dont be scared to say whats on your mind, some people wnt like what you say but then some people will, the important thing is to be yourself as you were meant to be and so yeah just dont hide what your really thinking.
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hey
depends on how outgoing you want to go
your friend daddydiva
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You should talk to your friends see what they talk about, ect, and talk to others about those things. join in clubs and sports teams, and most importanyly, be yourself.
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what exactly is popular? just because you have more friends than someone else or just because your well known? dont ever do something just to be more popular...be yourself and just stay true to who you are...you dont need to change to be more popular! I promise!
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Hey you know what, i went through the same thing. Last year i was very shy but i was popular and i wanted to try out for cheerleading. But then i heard that one of the requirements were being loud and outgoing. So i went out and had fun with everything i did and know that i think about it i had alot of fun doing it... SO IF i were you i would go out and get myself into different activies (?sports?) and just have fun with it..
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just be yourself popularity isnt everything when your popular your friends pretend to like you (they actually hate you) and when your not popular then you friends are there for you and like you also everyone is popular in their one way. hope this helped.
**sleepiesheep**
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Talk to people.. Get in more activites.. ♥ Dez
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