Hey guys,
I'm 15/f, and I really like this kid and he's 14. The only problem is that he lives in a different state! It pisses me off, because I like him so much and he already knows that because I've told him many times. He also has told me he likes me a lot. He wants to come and visit me sometime with his mom. I also talk to his mom, and she's very sweet. I've been talking to her son for a year now. I like him so much, and it's driving me crazy. I wanted to know if anyone here has ever really liked someone in another state, and has become really close with them. I really wish this kid could move here, and he always says how he wants to move here. I also wanna know if anyone has liked someone a whole not in another state, or even just far from them, and eventually the person moved closer to them, or in the same state? I know this is a stupid question, but I really like this kid. He is the sweetest kid I have ever talked to, and he has the nicest mom ever. Do you think there would ever be a chance for him to move here anytime soon, or when he gets older, or am I just being stupid? Someone please help me out! I'm going crazy here. We talk to each other everyday. I've never liked anyone this much. We have sent pictures to each other, and he's got the best personality. If anyone can, please help me out! I'd really appreciate it. Thank you so much! :-( Please don't say I'm stupid or anything, and don't tell me to get over him cuz that won't happen anytime soon.
frenchfries21 answered Monday November 14 2005, 4:11 pm: in my opinion, long distance relationships are very very hard, but if you want to do it, go for it. its just hard for it to work out when the person lives so far away because you miss them so much, you never get to see them and you'll never know if they cheat on you. if they start to date other girls that live near them, you'd never know because you live so incredibly far away. if you want to try and make it work then you can, but i usually dont recomend it. i've never had a long distance relationship and i probably wont try to have one until im alot older and can drive myself to see him all the time. keep talking to him, and maybe if he can come and see you, then thats great. good luck.
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Advicelady6798 answered Monday November 14 2005, 10:02 am: I think that any relationship has a chance to work. And if you dont try and see you will never know. Do you want to wonder if it will work out or do you want to know that it will work out. Long distance relationships work out if you want them to and i think that you have a very good chance for this one to work out. I think that eventually when you are old enough it will work out and he will move closer or you will move closer. Either way it can work if you really like the guy. [ Advicelady6798's advice column | Ask Advicelady6798 A Question ]
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