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Talking to my crush
Ok, so I have a crush on this girl. Long time ago i fell in love and since then i wanted to talk to her. But she is always talking with other girls{wich is fine} and i hardly talk to her. Can anyone tell me how i can talk to her?
If it helps im 13/m and shes 11/f.
--caden--
PS: you can see a pic of me and the girl on my collumn.
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you could..write a note...call her...talk to her online...it sounds like you may be a little shy..but you can always talk to her friends first then talk to her..hope i helped..<33chassi*
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Write her a note, talk to her when she's with her friends, get her number, talk to her on the computer.
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Hi There,
Most of the time, we avoid making the first move because a nasty little negative thought pops into our mind at exactly the wrong moment. Here are some of the most common:
Attractiveness is very much in the eye of the beholder. If you never approach the girl you fancy, how are they going to get the chance to decide?
You'll have more luck if you're pleasant and friendly, rather than flash or cheesy. Even if you end up feeling embarrassed, chances are that nobody else will even notice. If they say 'no thanks' nicely, then deal with it graciously and don't start insulting them, it'll only make you look immature and insecure. If the other person deliberately tries to embarrass you, they've actually done you a favour by letting you know that they have an attitude problem.
When it comes to body language every one of us speaks with a slightly different accent. Here are the basics, but when it comes to reading people for real be sure to look between the lines.
Girls are subtler than boys. If she's interested then you may see similar preening gestures, but also check out the way she's looking at you. Holding your gaze, looking away and then glancing back is a signal you can't afford to ignore. Also watch for the way she handles her wrists. Why? Because it's a part of the female body that's considered to be erotically charged. It's a pulse point, after all, not to mention a prime target for perfume. Crossing and uncrossing the legs may also be a promising sign too, but it could just mean she's busting to get up and away - so don't take the signs too literally!
If you doubt your confidence or your social skills, don't force yourself to go out on the pull. It isn't everyone's style, and if you are feeling down about yourself it could knock you back. Concentrate on being a bit more sociable, and making the effort to be friendlier. Most of us are shy, so it's a big relief when someone else makes an effort and breaks the ice first. Getting talking to people in a non-sexy way is a perfect method for making new friends, and the more friends you have, the more likely you are to find yourself chatting to someone you fancy.
Goodluck i'm sure you will be fine
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Find something you have in common and ask her a question about it. Or you could just have one of her friends talk to you and you both go together and talk to her so it isnt as weird. Sometimes yu have to just talk to the person you like.
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go up to her and say something. If she doesnt respond to you when shes around her friends, then try to get her when shes alown. Or you can get her after school. Try it and get bac to me.
peruvianpricess
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Well first just approach her and introduce yourself. Then, start to get into nice conversation with her and tel;l her about yourself and ask her somethings about her (what she likes, food, sports, etc..). After you think you've made friends with her then, ask her to a casual dinner or movie and see how it goes from there. Hope my advice hepled you out.
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