WHICH OF THESE BOYS SHOULD I ASK TO WINTER FORMAL?
Question Posted Tuesday November 15 2005, 1:31 am
Which of these boys should I ask to my winter formal? I go to an all girls school, so for the winter formal, all the girls have to ask the guys. Vote who you think I should ask:
guy 1: Pretty much my best guyfriend. Hang out with often. Am comfortable with. Nice, friendly, social, and a bit geeky. He's a dork. Mama's boy. Boy next door. Not a great dancer. Haha. Currently has a crush on me that I just found out about from my friend.
guy 2: Older than me by two grades. Friendly, but speaks really quietly. Has recently asked me out to see a show with him but I couldn't go. A bit boring to talk to on the phone. Sweet and laid back. Can actually dance. Never hang out with him in person.
guy 3: My personal crush. Asked him to formal last year and got turned down b/c he didn't know me that well. He now knows me better this year. Funniest guy I know. Always makes me laugh. Sweet and friendly and social. A nerd. But still social and outgoing. My friend thinks he has a crush on me because of the attention he gives me when I'm around. But I don't think so. He doesn't really like to dance. Smart. There's another girl who really likes him. I want to choke her. Well. Not really. Okay, yeah I do.
Additional info, added Tuesday November 15 2005, 10:40 pm: By the way, If I were going to ask #1, it'd be just to go as friends.. Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? imhere4advise777 answered Thursday November 17 2005, 7:50 pm: no question about it, guy # 3. if you really like him and you know each other alot better this year, go for it. if you get turned down, go for guy # 1, then guy # 2. # 2 doesn't seem like you like him that much. if he's boring to talk to and you don't hang out with him often, i would say no. guy one is my second because if you ask him out it mite ruin your relationship with him as a friend. guy 3 sounds like the best. hope it helps. ~*~*Lynne*~*~ [ imhere4advise777's advice column | Ask imhere4advise777 A Question ]
lyDia_LoU answered Tuesday November 15 2005, 11:05 pm: Go with guy 3! He sounds like a lot of fun! If he's wierd about going as a couple then maybe go with him as friends, it's all about having a good time. And besides, if guy 2 is there you can totally hook up with him. lol jk, no not really bc you might want to.. but whatever! [ lyDia_LoU's advice column | Ask lyDia_LoU A Question ]
x_C010rMyW0r1d answered Tuesday November 15 2005, 3:23 pm: Well first.. id go for guy 3 .. since you like him a lot. but if that doesnt work out im thinking guy 2. He seems nice. It might disappoint your guy 1 but if you lead him on and nothing happens.. hell be even more disappointed ya know ? Hope I helped ! [ x_C010rMyW0r1d's advice column | Ask x_C010rMyW0r1d A Question ]
beentheredonethat answered Tuesday November 15 2005, 12:57 pm: i would definitely go with guy 3! the first line says it all... he's your personal crush. he's the guy you want to get to know. it's obvious you like hanging around him and talking to him. if he's funny then being able to dance isn't going to be a big deal, because you'll be entertained anyway. so don't be shy.. go ask him! before that other girl does [ beentheredonethat's advice column | Ask beentheredonethat A Question ]
sizzlinmandolin answered Tuesday November 15 2005, 10:57 am: It's a bad idea to ask #1 because you may give him the wrong idea. You don't want complications in your friendship! It doesn't sound like you'd have that great of a time with #2 so I wouldn't go with him either. Ask your crush! You'll have an amazing time with him because you like him so much. You've got nothing to lose and if he says no you can always go with #2. Please, please, please, though, whatever you do don't go with #1! Even though you'd have a good time and you think it's funny that he likes you like he does, that's such a bad idea. After the dance you'll be asking us how to get rid of him without hurting your friendship! Well, whoever you go with I hope you have a really great time. Good luck! [ sizzlinmandolin's advice column | Ask sizzlinmandolin A Question ]
jofess answered Tuesday November 15 2005, 7:40 am: err ask contestant number three and if he says no ask number one. the second one sounds dumb. Maybe get a magic 8 ball and shake it up and ask it.
Clearly you are popular enough to ask any of them and if one rejects you ahve a fall back!! [ jofess's advice column | Ask jofess A Question ]
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