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i have a feeling that my husband is still fooling around with other girls what should i do to know and find it and to stop him (link)
this is a tough one but Im sure I can be willing to help. If you still feel uncomfertable and you feel that he was dating other girls than gather evidence because if you dump him you have no evidence and plus your not 100/00 sure that he is dating other girls. If you have a cell phone bill or telephone bill read the following calls and see if any unsual numbers appear then try to call them if there lots of women and no male then difinately I say this is a cheater your husband is. I know its tough because you want to be with him but he's not a great guy if he cheats on you, dating other women, not letting you know. But if there are no unsual numbers you could always try and follow him when he says he's going out for a lttile while follow him I know that sounds silly but I can't think of any other way to see that hes cheating on you.
But you could always ask him if he's still dating other girls who knows maybe you'll get lucky and he'll tell you the truth.

Let me know how it goes, Jessica


i m going to a concert soon, what should i wear!? something sparkely, or this really cut outfit that i wear with a hat. what is a good one 2 wear??????

thnx (link)
you should absoulutley where something sparkley outfit helo.... you have to be prepared for the hottest outfits if your going to a concert who nows maybe some cute guy will flirt with you!!!!!
let me in on the 411 on how it comes out.

jessica


My ex boyfriend and I still have feelings for each other. The only reason we broke up was because of an Instant Messanger Misunderstanding since someone always goes on his screenname. Well, he has a girlfriend who he only likes as a friend (which I think he got to make me jealous.) He and I want to get together but I'm afraid I'm going to get hurt? So should we keep ourselves a secret, should we tell his girlfriend about us, or should I just tell him its not a good idea? We really like each other. So any advice would be great. I'll rate 5's for Helpful advice. (link)
Well lets see... when you said he had real feelings for you and you did too then why did he get another girl friend just to make you jealous?
Let me ask you something do you want a boyfriend who really cares about you and will always care about you and not because of an Instant Messanger Misunderstanding. So if you really love this guy and he really likes you tell his girlfriend about you and him because love will never wait.... and no mater how hard you try to get another boyfriend you'll still have feelings for your true love....

Tell me if this working, Jessica


well i have this boyfriend named mike and this best friend named brittany. lately brittany has been flirting with mike but mike of course has not been flirting back. she has started lightly hitting him and he would just look at her funny. she even says stuff like "say hi to mikey for me" i don't want to lose her as a best friend and i really really like my boyfriend. and when me and mike hug she starts trying to say i'm cold let me get in the middle. and when we all sit down she like throws mike up and tells him to sit next to her so she could be in the middle. in the middle of me and him! help (link)
heres the deal, tell her how you feel and that she should stop getting so close the mike and no hard feelings though but its best if you just confront to her.


Hi. Tonight I am babysitting an 11 year old girl at my house. I was wondering some things I could do with her to keep her accupied. Any ideas would be helpful. Thanks. (link)
No problem here are the following things you could do:
Play boardgames around the house
watch her favorite t.v. shows
cook her favorite meals together
play out door games (tag, hide and seek etc.)
maybe go to a movie or something


I have a friend that has been drinking and stuff. I've told her not to but i know she doesn't care. And now everybody is all like yeah i drink a lot and i've gotten drunk and smoked that. It seems like everybody smokes and drinks! it's crazy we're all still young! I don't do that kind of stuff and I feel weird like ppl think it's no big deal drinking and i say it's wrong and they think i'm weird. I'm so confused! does everybody do the drugs? i'm not going to start doing them but should i still speak up and say they're wrong? (link)
No don't even think about taking drugs that stuff can kill you and the worst part about it is that once you start taking it you can't stop its like you stuck in glue, speak your voice no matter how hard it takes. Its better to do nothing because one day your friend is going to get hurt badly! Let me know if this helps.


Well this is so random but my dad is my soccer coach and when ever we are at practice and i say daddy he says i am not gunna respond to that call me coach.. and i get really sad (link)
That's not good... tell your dad how you feel and maybe the two of you can talk it over nd see how it takes off from there let me know if this helps.


My friend lets call her Ashleigh well Ashleigh always is assuming she is fat.. and she is gunna dye.. she is never thinking positive.. she is always thinking negative things about her self.. i really want to help her control her self.. she told me it's mostly b.c of her dad and brother..
her dad has cancer and doesn`nt have much time to live mayb 2 more years..hopefully god will help him and her brother just got released from jail.. and i feel bad for her..if you know ANY way for me to help her please tell me i will rate high if thats what you want

Meli (link)
Hi Meli:
As soon as I read your question I knew I had to help so heres my advice... you should really try to think what if your Asheleigh and think if you were assuming you were fat and you were going to die what would you do? Its bad enough she has a brother that is in jail and her father has cancer an all but promise me that you will try your best to cheer Asheleigh up because it's better to have a friend arround to comfort her and know that she can come to you anytime. Let me know if this is help full.

Jessica Baldwin




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