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You don't know what I'm feeling right now!!!
I'm sooooo pissed off at the world right now!!! I can't talk to anyone about anything! Nobody knows how I feel... or what I'm going through... Sorry if some of this doesn't make sense, I'm waaaaay too frusturated to think!!!
13/m I'm going through puberty, I know it. Nothing physical yet. I'm still short. My voice is still insanely soprano. I don't have any acne yet. No facial hair. But I'm feeling everything mental. I'm getting smarter, I must be since I've been suddenly getting better at chess. And I'm experiencing every one of these what I like to call "true emotions": from love to infatuation, from rejection to jealousy, I'm feeling it all. I can't even remember everything else, I'm so distraught!
Now, if I had someone to talk with, things might be better. But my friends are only going through physical and not emotional/mental so far, except for those two guys who're obsessed with "is she hot?" right now. So many Advicenators are so obsessed with all that 13-year-olds-can't-love crap that their advice winds up getting me more depressed than it does help me. My parents figure that if I haven't physically changed, I couldn't possibly be mentally changing, and so they just tease me about it. I tried keeping a journal, but I'm not good at that stuff. And I'm way too busy to see a therapist or something.
I'm soooooo pissed off at the world, my life sucks. I shouldn't even bother living or making my regular jokes anymore. I'm nothing anymore... please help me!!!
~~Dakmor
PS Smartasses will be reported!!!
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It realy does suck when no one understands what your going through but your friends might have more suttle changes instead of everything all at once so don't think your nothing no ones nothing im sure you'l find someone going through the same thing too i know I did but things even out after a while so don't stress it just makes things worse
hope i helped
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wow you must be feeling a rolercoaster of emotions. i understand about your friends and how you might not be able to talk to them because they are not going through what you are. Try talking to your parents or a close friend before so you won't be so stressed out. the mental changes that you're going through are real and you should not ignore them....i hope i helped somehow....
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Its a phase every male goes through. I remember when I was your age I was very angry, did bad stuff, and got in trouble. Thats the life of a preteen I guess. You will grow out of it eventually.
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Hey I'm a girl...and I have plenty of guy friends who are to much of pussys to admit what they felt or are feeling right now so i give you props :) anyway what you're goin through is normal..girls go through it too! don't let the emotions overwhelm you..you should be happy because girls love it when guys are more mature and developing all these emotions shows maturity! when it really stresses you out do something thta relaxes you..like for me i go into my room and just blast my headphones...music relaxes me...so just do what relaxes you..hopefully it's not eating though lol! good luck! ♥ caitie
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We all go through through this stage.
When you feel like you are at the end of your rope, go somewhere where no one can come up and bother you. Lie on your bed, sit on the floor, whatever... For a few minutes just try to think of nothing, well, clear your mind anyways. If you just wait for a little bit you will calm down or your mind will unscramble enough to have some useful thoughts. Hey, it works for, like, EVERYONE I know.
Good luck- *emster*
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Hi Dakmor,
Of course 13 year olds can love and be infatuated, and all the other things you listed.
Will the love last forever, maybe not...its real right now though. Will someone love you the same way? Maybe not, you may be more mature than a lot of others your age. That's where the problems come in. You may have to wait for them to catch up.
Things will get better. You are just experiencing hormonal overload. All teens go through it at one time or another. If there is anything specific I can help with feel free to ask. I may not have your answer but I will try and find it for you. :)
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im 13/f and i know exactly what your going through. the same exact thing is happening to me. none of the physical, but mental and emotionally. ive been having a lot of mood swings and it pisses a lot of people off. it feels like no one understands, but ive learned that people do actually understand. everyone goes through puberty and has gone through these "phases" as my mom likes to call it. Ot feels like no ones on your side and the whole world is aainst you. but theyre not. eventually things will change. then when you look back on it youll laugh and think "i actually thought that?" hope i helped!
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This is going to go on for a while. You just have to live through it. Don't say that nobody else feels like you do...EVERYONE FEELS, HAS FELT, OR WILL FEEL THIS WAY. Believe me. It's LIFE. Life is not meant to be easy and enjoyable--it's meant to be a painful, emotional torture. Please believe me when I say everyone goes through it! Stressing the way you are is just going to make it worse. Try your hardest to just accept other people for who they are and be patient with them and above all, RELAX. Seriously. Don't think you're nothing, because you are something--you are a beautiful rose bud about to bloom! I know that sounds ghey, but it's true. IT IS!
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You shouldn't really stress about it too much honestly, even though its hard. This is natural, with guys and girls-i even see it with my guy friends. Your friends and people you know haven't had these feelings yet probably because they havent started to mature in that way. Most guys take longer than it does for girls to mature but there are exceptions. I see it in some of my close guy friends all the time and its just like emotional and moody and sometimes its hard to understand, thats wat makes it stressful but you gotta be strong bout it. Teen years are difficult but they are also fun, so dont spend all your teen life worrying about so much and thinking your life is bad. I have gone through a lot in my life and I know so many people that have gone through even WORSE...so i still consider myself lucky to be healthy and alive and able to do wat i do now. Just take things day by day and try doing things that calm you down, think about how you feel bout something before you act...sometimes i find that helps. Just look for the brighter side even if you dont think there will be one!! Keep your hopes up!! i really hope things get better for you and if you need any other advice or anything on that subject ...hit me up! hope i helped
*twizz
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As much as you think that you feel alone and think you are the only person to be going through this, YOU ARE NOT.
Every teenager has had to go through the same thing. Hardly any need a therapist but some keep a journal. It sounds like a good idea, so try again! You could write down the good things instead of the bad, and when you're having a bad day, read over the good stuff again.
It really is normal, so I wouldn't worry about anything too much. You may think your life sucks now, but when you mature a bit more, you will realise that all this is stupid, and a part of growing up.
Be happy ^_^
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