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Is it normal to not be able to get over the guy you lost your virginity to? I lost mine to an asshole who completely used me as a bet and lied about how he was a virgin and "wanted to loose his virginity to me too" I can't get over him. It's making me depressed and I don't know if I'm overreacting or what?
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what an asshole!!
move on!
go out with a really hot guy.
and make him see you kissing you!
WHAT AN ASSHOLE.
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well since he lied and he was using you. you should try your best to get over him and need to get him off your mind cuase girls dont disserve guys like that
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it is normal because the guys a total jerk! but dont worry, you will find someone special and forget about that jerk.
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no i dont think your over reacting but ya that guy is an ass hole!! move on ! you will he was obviously not for you !! and you will probably find som1 much better!! just dont make that mistake again you might rrreally regret it . well hope i helped !! <3 allison
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Its normal. I lost mine to an asshole too and it took me awhile to get over it/him. Now I just tell everyone I'm still a virgin and when people ask if I've slept with him I say 'no' which helps becasue I'm kind of detaching myself from him.
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Yeah it's normal. That's why people say wait for the one that you fall in love with. It's a big emotional jump for you. You are never going to forget who you did it with. Him making a bet about it all isn't making it better. I'm sorry you have to go through all of this. You aren't overreacting though.
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It's completley normal. Girls always get attached to the guy they lost their virginity to I mean you lose your virginity to him. It shows how much you care about him and love him. Its a big thing to that with someone. This guy IS a total asshole. I mean I know he was your first and you care alot, but you just need to try to get over him. And find someone else who will love you back and care about you just as much as you care about them and won't use you as a bet and won't lie. =/ I'm sorry he did that. You are totally not overreacting. Just try not to think of him and try to focus on your friends and don't do anythign that reminds you of him and slowly but surely someday you'll forget all about him and you'll be happy, and he'll probably be miserable and alone. I hope I helped.
Love,
MELii
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this is toatally normal alls you need to do is find someone else that you love alot and share your secrets with and someday youi will forget all about the guy but you wan't forget what he did to you
find someone else you can love and care for
I hope I helped
jessica
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Hun it is normal. people (especialy girls) get wicked attached to the first person they loose ther virginity to. Thats why all my friends always tell me NOT to loose my virginity yet because I get attached easly. But really you need to try your hardest to move on because what he did was not right and NO girl should have to go through that. Maybe buy a note book and just doodle and write how angry and hurt you are at him.. I doodle everything out that is bothering me and it helps me alot. If you ever wana talk about it feel free to email me
email - cravingbeauty_x3@hotmail.com
Goodluck hun
<3maddie
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Losing your virginity is a big thing and most believe the one they give it to trusts and loves you. Please don't think it's your fault, he lied to you and betrayed your trust in the nastiest way possible. You can't change the past, so, why not start a fresh, new leaf and think to yourself that you're better than him and in the future, you'll be the one with an adoring husband and he'll just end up as a tramp or locked behind bars.
x Steph x
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