Question Posted Saturday November 12 2005, 3:18 pm
yesterday a boy came over that i really like. Ok so things got heated and we started kissing, makin out a lot.yeah. Then we got into my room and he fingered me. Now im afraid that maybe he doesn't like me or somethin or just doesn't have any feelings for me. He's not the kind of guy that would use a girl like me like that because I know him really well and he treats me differently than other girls (in a good way)but for some reason I'm still worried that he's just gonna forget about me and go with another girl or something. What can I do to maybe prevent this from happening??? thankss!
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? MELiixMARiiE answered Sunday November 13 2005, 1:50 pm: Well are you sure he wouldn't do that? Cause even though he treats you differently from other girls, he could still want the same thing. =/ Try and invite him over again and don't do anything just yet just sit there with him and talk to him and everything and flirt just normally, but if he begins to be like," wanna makeout?" or somethig like that, it just sounds like he wants you to kiss and everything, and nothing more. So just get his number if you don't already have it and call him and just talk to him and flirt with him and everything =] and if that doesn't work, then you might have to ove on, cause obviously he wants nothing more than that. =/ I hope I helped.
happy-helper answered Saturday November 12 2005, 6:03 pm: Talk to him, tell you that you enjoyed what happened (if you did of course!) and that he made you feel special (if he did!).
He would have no reason to suddenly stop liking you, if so, then learn a lesson about trust. But, I'm sure you're just over-reacting, which we all do sometimes...
Don't worry about it too much! :)
x Steph x [ happy-helper's advice column | Ask happy-helper A Question ]
PrettyLady16 answered Saturday November 12 2005, 4:24 pm: I am sorry :(. But I think that if you act like you are hesitant to how yall's relationship is going to end up toward him he will think that YOU are uncomforatable... so just think positive consider how he treats you different from the other girls and just don't blank out and not talk to him for a while because that would give him the idea that you are avoiding him... just go on like normal and be confident, I'm sure he still likes you! well good luck with your situation...
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xxoBriannax answered Saturday November 12 2005, 3:45 pm: Hmm, by not doing anything with him to begin with? Ask him if he really likes you. You shouldn't do anything else sexual with him in the future unless you guys are dating or something. [ xxoBriannax's advice column | Ask xxoBriannax A Question ]
brokenagain answered Saturday November 12 2005, 3:44 pm: He is not going to forget about you--does he know you lik ehim? why did he come over? did you ever talk about being in a relationship? what is he looking for? just a booty call? there are alot of factors in this but the main thing is keep talking to him and let things take its course [ brokenagain's advice column | Ask brokenagain A Question ]
dearshaminy answered Saturday November 12 2005, 3:33 pm: Well for one thing, if you really like him, you would let him do what he does. If he does make out with another girl, you can always break up with him in a huge way. If he doesn't, be glad you didn't make a fool of yourself. [ dearshaminy's advice column | Ask dearshaminy A Question ]
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