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so this guy asked me out finally.
but idk if it was a joke..
he asked me on myspace.
heres the exatc convo..
will you go out with me?
really?
yeah i like you alot.
awe.
yeah i dont want to be mean but whats the answer i gtg soon.
yeah sure.
so you will go out with me?
yeah.
then it ended..
the part where he said i like you alot dosent make since.
it could of been a joke.
what do you think.
i really need help
THANKS SO MUCH!
I RATE 5
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I don't think it sounds like he's kidding. If he was joking, he wouldn't say the "I like you a lot" part unless he's a complete asshole. Bring it up even jokingly, like "hey boyfriend!" or something like that. You'll be able to tell whether or not he was serious from the way he reacts.
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do u relly fink he wud say yeh if he were jokin, just carry on acting like u fink he will and see if wat happens
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It might have or might not have. If you like him then you should know if he really likes you too. Personally, I wouldn't want someone to ask me out online though. Call him and talk to him or do it in person.
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So when did this guy write to you and ask you out? If it was only recently, then I'd wait until he writes, calls or sees you at school (?) to ask you out on a definite date with day and time.
If it's been a while since he contacted you, you could do the following (actually you could do this even if the contact was recent):
Pass him a piece of paper with your phone number on it - even if he has it already...does he? - and just simply say, call me when you want to get together. Or, use Myspace and ask him to contact you when he's ready to go out. Tell him that you're flattered that he asked, but make your conversation short until you hear what kind of response you get. If he doesn't respond or call, then maybe he's tied up for a while, or, OK, maybe he wasn't all that serious. But I do want to know why you would think he's joking around with you? Have you had no contact, or very little, with him and this just came out of the blue? Still, that doesn't mean he's joking.
His abrupt "conversation" with you really could have meant that he had to go but that he wanted to contact you first. Cool. The other thing is that he may have been a little shy about doing this in the first place and didn't know what else to write.
Try not to focus on the negative...and so quickly, at that! Just relax and go with the flow. You'll find out sooner or later if he's serious. Be patient.
Good luck and let me know if he sets up a date.
P.S. You announce that you "rate 5." That's nice, but you really should only rate an answer by how much you feel it can help you. Adding that to your message only sounds like some sort of bribe! (Yeah, I know. You're not the only one who does this, but I don't think it's a great idea, if you don't mind my saying so.)
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Well... if hhe hasn't called you or anything saying it was a joke, or his friends haven't come up to you and said "ha ha ha ha you really believed he liked you?" Then he really must like you hun.
Much love
Contact me if yu need any other advice.
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Ava
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Are you the same person
Who asks every question
Like this..?
If so, you have a serious...
problem.
Stop asking so many friggen questions.
Sometimes it does get annoying.
Y'know?
Ask him, what else do you want us to say, seriously? If he says he likes you, then he probably does. Just ask him to make sure.
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maybe you should write a note about it and give it to him. call him and if he has an email maybe you should email him. but it might be better if you talk to him on the phone or in person.
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