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I can't even say hi
Whenever I try to talk to a girl I have not met I just freeze. I can't get the words out of me. I am looking to start off as friends and if I like her then ask her out but I just freeze. Is there some way I can get myself to get past it?
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Well dont frezze becuase girls dont like when guys are shy.There is nothing to be scared of anyways.
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dude girls get the same way. well i do anyway. and i have a brother! but not like that helps. thinking of them as friends first definatly helps. but with the freezing up when you want to ask one out. well we do the same thing when we try to ask one of you out. it just takes alot of guts and you just need to think she'll either say yes or no. and though sometimes you will be let down youd atlest be proud of yourself that you asked her. actually this just made sence to me now.. hmm haha anyway if you dont want to use the term "wanna go out with me" then maybe asking it like "hey would you like to hang out sometime" might be a little easyer with less presure on yourself.
well i hope i helped!
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It'll probably help you to know that girls are also a bit shy around guys too. So the next time you start to freeze up, just think, "Ok, this is a girl, and were both in this akward situation, so I should take the tension off and make it easier to talk"
Believe me, you aren't the only person in the situation that is tense. You just have to know that. And girls do tend to like a guy that plays everything pretty cool and is relaxed, so just start talking or make a comment about something.
-TheTeenGirl
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Most girls are really nice if a guy approaches them. I know that I am. Today, I was out and it was a table of girls and a guy just sat down in the middle. We kinda knew him, but still.
Lots of girls understand how much it takes to talk to us. I am scared to death to even SIT by a guy I like, let alone talk to him.
I guess just be yorself. Also, maybe if two guys approached 2 girls, that would be less awkward.
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Dont think ahead, think in the moment.
Im a girl, and I seem to get the butterflies alot around guys, so.. I have a feeling of what your saying.
But really thinking ahead is bad (you sad you want to start of friendswhen maybe ask her) think of just being her friend. And relax about it, beacause honestly most girls (or atleast me & all my friends) cannot tell when a guy is nervous.
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I think that you just need to believe in yourself. You just need to boost you confidence up. And next time just say to yourself that you can do it, and that everything will be ok.
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go streaking, it will bring up your confidence....yes i was kidding but really, do something to boost your confidence, or just relax and chill.
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Maybe you can have a talkative friend help you out. Go with him up to the girl you want to talk to. Have him start the conversation. Once she starts talking perhaps she will talk to you. You try and talk back!
Have the friend (planned ahead of time), take off once you and the girl in question start talking okay.
Just a thought. :) Good luck.
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