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Best Friends and Boyfriends
One of my best friends likes the same guy as me. Well my and my crush (Ross) have been talking alot latley and he told me he likes me. I don't know how to tell her that he likes me. I don't wanna sound like I'm trying to rub it in her face, but I don't want her to find out from like gossip or something so I want her to know so she doesn't get her heart broken, but what should I say?
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The bigger question here is how will she feel if you go out with him at all?
It's a very difficult situation because if you go out with him, you risk losing your best friend but if you don't go out with him, you risk losing out on a really great guy.
Now I'm not going to tell you the whole "Boys come and go but friends will always be there" cliche because in my experience, it's not always true. However, I think you need to talk it over with your friend first and see how she feels about you going out with him.
You need to ask her how she would feel if you were to go out with him. Then break it to her that you really like him and he's said he likes you too but you didn't want to agree to go out with him without seeing if she was okay with it first because you didn't want to hurt her.
If she REALLY likes him, you will have to make the decision as to whether or not you do go out with him. Unfortunately, this is not a choice anyone can make for you but your best bet is to see how your friend takes the idea first and go from there.
If your friend says that it's okay with her then go for it. Just try to remember her feelings when you're happily loved up with him and try not to talk to her too much about it!!
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Well just talk to her and say that we both like each other.but it wont sound like your rubbing it in her face.You shouldnt keep anything from your best friends becuase if you do thats how you'll get farther away from them.
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Don't ever hide anything from a best friend so just tell her that he likes you and the feelings that you two have for each other can't change and no one can help the feelings for each other.Just tell her not to get mad and I'm sure she will understand ♥
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heyy well an idea is to have ross tell youur friend, or you can say "Hey (friend) listen, dont be mad but ross told me he liked me. i dont want to sound mean but i dont want you to hear it from the wrong person and be mad"
hope that helps! xoxo
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i think you should juss tell her that. juss say "i didn't want you to find out through gossping & be confused, but..." & explain to her the whole situation.
-hope that helped!♥
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