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should I call him
about 3-4 months ago my boyfriend and I split. I was so upset that he wouldn't let me explain my reasons for what had happened that I wrote him a long letter. I really did love him and I still do.I just didn't like what he said and did to me. In that letter I said some pretty nasty things. I have been thinking about him alot lately, and would reallylike to call him. should I? I mean after the letter that I wrote I'm afraid he won't talk to me, or if he does it will be to say some more mean things to me. What should I do? and If I should call him what should I say?
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I think you should call him, if you really love this guy and are this upset about him, then it is definatly worth it. Besides it is really important that you hear how he feels too. Because for all you know he feels the exact same wasy. And if he does and you dont call him you'll regret it for the rest of your life.
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sometimes it's hard to get over a guy, but sometimes there is still a chance of getting back together. i think that if you do decide to call him,then you need to both explain your own reasons for splitting up, and you may even have to apologize if your letter was that bad. i can't be sure that you two will get back together, so i'm wishing you good luck!
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I definitely think you should call him. Make sure things with you and him are okay. But definitely dont say anything to make you sound desperate. Because then he will be just thinking "why did i ever go out with her?"
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Break ups are always hard and once the relationship is over people think that they shouldn't even be friends. I think that you should call him or just wait for him responce to your letter. See what he says and just tell him you still want to be friends. You really need to move on to other guys. The more you're stuck on him, the more you will keep getting hurt. Go out with other guys and just have fun and keep your mind of your ex. You deserve better but for now just try to be friends with him.
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I really think that you should move on. I know it is hard, trust me I know. But it is probably the best thing to do.
You had reasons to break up with him, and if you guys got back together those same things would happen.
I really just think that you should just forget him and move on. Get another boyfriend, and just forget him.
It will be hard, but after a while it will just become easier.
I hope everything goes well.
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If you call him, tell him the truth! Tell him that you still love him and your truly sorry. Tell him that you want to get back together. If he turns you down, It just breaks you free to love another guy. Remember to be cute!
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