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this is sooo weird!
I'm sorry if this is kind of long..
helpful info: 15/f..all girls school... this was at an all-guys school dance....
last night i was at this dance. i was outside with some friends because we were waiting for a few people to arrive. so, this friend of mine, introduces me to his friends. One of these friends asks me if i wanted to go inside and dance, so i was like.. sure. we went inside and started dancing for a while. Then, they were having like this contest or whatever and we were watching and he put his arm around me and said: "thank you for dancing with me!"
at the end of the night the guy kisses me. I asked him "what was that?!" and he said "i like you" i tried to make it kind of clear that i'm not a slut u know, someone that just kisses anyone. he said that he could tell i'm not a slut, but he meant no harm by it, he just liked me. so i was like ok. then when i was leaving, he kissed me again the parking lot, and literally like carried me and spun me around and he even held my hand. i was kind of shocked because he just met me, but on the other hand, i could tell that he didn't mean any harm, he just liked me...
but, my mother saw me from the parking lot. she was appauled because she thinks she knows every one of my friends like the back of her hand. she claimed to have never seen this child in her life... and asked me who that was that i was making out with. i wasn't even really "making-out". i agree that it was a little weird for the first time that you meet someone, but he didn't seem like trouble or anything. he said that he was sorry, he just couldn't control his "impulse" but that he was really sorry he didn't mean any harm by it. but my mother is super worried about this! she told me that she couldn't even sleep last night thinking of this... and in my opinion that's a little extreme!
if you can give me any advice on this, i would appreciate it a lot. i really need help on how to get my mother out of these things. i wish she could just get over it, i've told her about other times when i've made out with guys and shes always been like "thats great!" please answer soon
thanks again!
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It is completly normal for a parent to be worried about a child making out with someone they just met.
I think you should get to know this guy and then tell your mum about him so that she can calm down about him if she knew that you know about him.
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Well of course all mothers are going to be paranoid, im 17 and my mom thinks im still a prude. Anyway just tell her that you and the boy dont even talk anymore. If she doesnt believe you then just ignore her, go along with whatever she says. sure mom, yes mom, you know stuff like that.
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Well I think your mom was just upset because she didn't know the boy, and she probably just feels more comfortable if it was a boy that she knew.
I don't think that there is really anything you can do to keep your mom from worrying about things like that. Just don't do anything to give her any more reason to be worried.
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