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3rd wheel
okay so i have two best friends. and lately its seemed like they have been leaving me out. of everything. one of them, lets call her A, ive known since 3rd grade and shes been my best friend since. now im in 8th. the other, V, has been my best frined since 6th grade. and i like intoduced them to eachother in 6th grade. its always been us three. we have even gotten the name as "triple threat" around our school and such. but now it seems like its them, and then me. they talk on the phone everynight for hours on end, and everytime they see eachother they run up and hug each other for what seems like an hour. and im lucky if i even get like a hi sometimes. it may be that im jealous.. but i still want a hug. you know? they have been getting closer to eachother and farther from me. i know i really shouldnt be having to deal with this kinda thing with my best friends, but i am. and it totally sucks. ive talked to them about it and they said its kinda my fault because i do travel basketball that takes up all my weekends, but seriously, they shouldnt be blaming it on me.. should they? i did basketball last year too, and it wasnt any different between us. this started happening like 2 months ago. and now its getting really bad. if you have any advice on what i can do, please just post back anything. please! thanks in advance :]
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Its hard to be a 3rd wheel & feel jealous about it, in fact im going through the exact same thing right now.
I think that you should hang out with them more often and laugh and tell each other secrets. You go in tommorow with a big smile and hug them both and act cherry and talk to them all day then ivite them round and have fun and they will see that you can be fun too.
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To me it sounds like you should just try and find some friends who will like you no matter what.
Because it sounds like they are just being little bitches (sorry). So I thin you just need to dis them for and while, and maybe they will end up realizing that they miss you and say that they were wrong..if not then you will know that they were not your true freinds.
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