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pregnant?
ok so today me and my boyfriend had sex and we didnt have proctection but we cant get it because none of our friends know and we arent going to go and buy them ourselves so he just takes it out before he feels like he is going to finnish, well today he said he didnt feel it until 10 seconds before he finnished and he pulled out and about 8 second after he finnished. i freaked out of course but he said he could feel when he pre cums so i dont know if i should believe him or what. ALso, what are the first signs of being pregnant ?
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First off, having unprotected sex is never a good idea.
Second, neither is pulling out.
I suggest you buy a pregnancy test if you miss your period, and then slap yourself & your boyfriend in the face for even thinking that pulling out & unprotected sex was ever okay.
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Clearly, you should not trust this guy. He doesn’t have the control he thinks he does, obviously!
Even if he did, you both did a very silly thing. The pull-out method is at best about 60% effective. You are practically asking for a baby.
I just asked the four guys sitting in the room if they could 'feel' their pre-cum. Most of them said "No, not really" and one said "Shit no." I can’t speak from experience myself, but I find it a bit ludicrous that a guy could feel that tiny bit of warm liquid while in an environment full of warm liquid.
I'm sorry to say it, but I think at best your boyfriend is deluded, and at worse he is a liar.
Pre-cum is also not something that just happens once you know. Small amounts can appear several times while a guy is hard, not just when he is close to finishing.
You are playing Russian roulette with your fertility. Don’t be a dummy. No more sex until one of you has the sense and maturity to buy condoms and learn to use them correctly.
The first major sign of pregnancy is missing your period, anything else could just be in your head now that you so worried. Most home tests are only valid after you are at least three days and sometimes a week late. You'll just have to wait it out and keep your fingers crossed.
Remember, the stress isn't worth it! Use protection and don't fuck numbskulls.
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If you and your boyfriend haven't had a serious talk about sex and being protected I would talk to him about it. If you all aren't responsible enough to get condoms, then don't have sex.
I don't really know the signs of being pregnant though.
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If your not mature enough to buy condoms then you are certainly not mature enough to have sex!
You need to get yourself to the chemist today and ask them about emercency contraception, 24 hour pill, as this will reduce your chance of getting pregnant, but it has to be the day you had sex.
Why does it matter if your friends dont know your having sex, why dies that stop you buying condoms?
They're going to know anyway when you have a baby bump!
This tells you the first signs of pregancy but if you are sensible enough to act today then you might be lucky and not get that far
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The pull out method doesn't work. Most men cannot feel most, if any of their pre-cum..which gets realeased usually very soon after he becomes aroused and sexual things start happning. It acts as a natural lubricant...just like when a girl is "wet". Same idea. The thing is that pre-cum can contain millons of sperm, which can get you pregnant. I don't understand why it is so hard to go get condoms? Also, even though you may not think you are at risk of getting an STD, you can get HPV and be at risk for cervical cancer. Look it up if you don't know much about HPV, by the age of 50, 80% of women would've been exposed to it.
Just a bad idea all around. The first signs of being pregnant are headaches, nausea, soreness of the breats, among others.
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Okay, Not the best idea, But I don't think we have to keep nagging her about it she wants help. She wasnt asking if it was bad or not. She's proberly scared and she doenst need internet people to tell her it was bad, Im, sure she is aware that it's not the best idea.
for next time , Guessing you are younger(teens) You shoudlnt really be havind sex, Not my descion though. But go to a local health center and they have em there for free, Its were you can go get needles and stuff.
Mising a period is the most ovious sign to notice, You also eat more. If I were you I would take the prgancy test. If you are pregnat. Tell your parents right away, They need to know.
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pulling out is bad dont do it, you can still get pregnant, you arent gonna know right away. wait and see if you get your period
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BAD BAD BAD BAD BAD idea.
if you miss your period you could be pregnant
get a pregnancy test in a while
and use protection every time.
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Sorry I didn't answer this yesterday. I was quite busy with school!
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This is a list of pregnancy symptoms. Read over them. There may be no symptoms of your pregnancy except for a missed period. So if you do miss a period, be sure to take a pregnancy test.
Moving on: guys cannot feel it when they precum. That means he most likely did precum in you. They may say they can feel it, but they really can't, at least not all the time. That's why condoms are so important.
I don't care if you're embarrassed to go buy one. I don't care if it feels better without one. YOU NEED A CONDOM EVERYTIME. If you can't get a condom, then you can't have sex. Simple as that. I can't stress to you enough the importance of a condom. You must have one. Next time, use one.
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Alright, well. There is ALWAYS a chance of being pregnant when you dont use protection. You could believe him, but guys can't always tell when they're going to cum. But some signs of being pregnant are:
Morning Sickness
Having to pee alot
Exhaustion
Constipation
Itching stomach or breasts
Heartburn.
hope this helps.
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