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How do I handle this?
16/f. In one of my classes, I sit by a kid who has low self-esteem and possibly mental issues. Anyway, he started talking to me on the first day of class (we had not met before). Then he started telling me about how girls always reject him, and how he's "always wanted to ask me out." After he said that, I didn't say anything back- I just sat there and continued doing my work. Frankly, this kid gives me the creeps but I don't want to be rude at all to him. When the bell rang to leave class, he said, "So will you go out with me?" And I politely said no. I think it's really weird that he asked me out when we had just met, and when he doesn't know me AT ALL. So here's the question: Class is really awkward now. How do I handle this situation, and if he brings it up again, what do I say? I don't want a relationship right now (at least not with him), and I don't want to hurt his feelings because he has low self-esteem. Help? Thank you guys!
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If he has a low self esteem..maybe switching seats isn’t the best idea.he needs confidence and you saying no and then moving seats will defiantly upset him.talk to him a bit become a “friend” how do you know anything unless you don’t try it’s a bit mean,I mean he may be less “creepier” than you think…just talk to him to give him some boost with people and class work…he may not know how to socialize, sometimes you have to think of others before yourself and do things you don’t
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If it gets really unconfurable after awhile maybe ask your teacher to switch your seat and have her say its for a different reason.
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If hes always wanted to ask you out, maybe he knows of you and you had not noticed, act normal, like he never asked, dont feel guilty trust your instincts, if someone makes you feel funny there is a reason! and if that doesnt help you, try hooking him up with that girl you dont care to much for{ha ha}. but always trust YOUR FEELINGS.BRIE
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