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What should i do?
we'll me and my bestfriend hang out every weekend and we hang out with these two boys, c and j and my best friend started to date c, and after a while me and j got kinda bored with having them date and everything so me and him we started talking a lot and some how we got to talking about becoming "friends with benefits" and at first it was just simple just us two making out but then after that it got more serious and well i let him finger me and i jacked him off and it was more then i intended to ever do with him, we'll now things have gotten more serious between me and him and well now he likes me and i like him, we arn't dating or anything but our feelings are gettn stronger everytime we talk and i've had sex before and so has he and well we always talk about maybe having sex with each other and now im thinking that maybe i shou;d..i need help on weather or not i should or not?
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I say if he isn't one of those guys that talks mean about girls than go for it. If you like him not if you think it's your duty. What your doing seems fun and i wish i would have gotten that kind of offer (lol). Go for it girl and have fun you only live once!! hope i helped!
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I dont really agree with the whole "friends with benefits" thing. If i was you i would tell the guy how u really feel. Or either ask him what he thinks about u and see what he thinks. If he dont wanna be more than friends then more than likely hes just using you and it probably wont last long. Good Luck!!
*~*Jessica*~*
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I guess I am old fashioned. I hate the whole friends with benefits thing.
Either he cares enough to date you or its just using.
So, I would have to say stop with the benefits. If he can handle that without getting mad at you, and decides you are good enough to date...Proceed safely in whatever you decide to do.
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I agree with what the person above me said.
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I think this is all up to you, and what you want to do. Do you want to continue being friends with benefits, or do you want more from him? If you want to be more, it's up to you to tell him about your feelings and then maybe start a relationship. If you slept with him, and a few days later he got a girlfriend, would you be upset? If you would, you do have feelings for him that you can't deny, and should probably tell him.
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