helpachick answered Saturday September 8 2007, 10:36 am: usually either/both. but if he goes all the way in and it hurts you (it might the first couple times) dont be afriad to tell him that it hurts or something. he should understand and pull his finger out a little bit. good luck..be careful..have fun.
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brie answered Saturday September 8 2007, 3:47 am: Usually both, starting on the outside and then the inside, dont do anything you are not comfortable with, you can always say stop, slow down, not yet, or tell them upfront dont go inside, or anything else you are not wanting to do, its your body! please use protection when it gets that far. be safe. BRIE [ brie's advice column | Ask brie A Question ]
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