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I need some guidance on getting a special someone and better
Okay. Im 15/f and im not what people would consider a hottie. im a big girl. lol. im cute though at least thats what ive been told. but i just cant get a single guy to like me and/or the guys i like allways say no to me and go for my best friends. I dont like to say that my confidence is low but it is. I need to know how to expand my friendship cirle and find a guy! please help!
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The best way to expand your friendship circle is to not have a friendship circle... get to know and befriend all cliques. You are guaranteed to meet guys that way.
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hmmm ok,well since you are cute and such but do not consider yourself a hottie,that does not mean you don't have a fallback....personality and skills
trust me on this,most guys,well i do,go for what a girl does and can do
for example,rocker girls really turn me and my friends on,just a girl playing a guitar...well,it's the same as girls who go for thin ugly rockstars cause they can sing
anyways,open up more and be friendly,smiling is an important key,and you could always do things to improve yourself,like working out,changing hairstyles,more spunky outfits and such.
what you are now never means what you will become tomorrow
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Hey!
Thats a good question, but I think that before you find a boyfriend, you need to bring up your confidence level. Guys hurt. And you've already been hurt. what you need to do is give it time and work up to getting a boyfriend.
Start by joining a drama or acting club, feel free to stand out. That REALLY brought up my confidence levels.
Then start making friends with guys. In the process you may find one who wants to go out with you, or you may not. finding a boyfriend takes time and effort. if you work hard to find guys who are your friends, you'll start to meet their friends and eventually find a guy who likes you for who you are, not just what you look like (etc). Also, remember, you're fifteen, you dont NEED a boyfriend. It's just a nice thing to have. I'm 16 and I've never had one. so dont worry about getting one right now, because guys our age are really stupid. They dont look for a soul mate, they look for someone whose hot. And if you arent up to their standards, well that sucks. But there are a fwe exceptions, and if you take the time and look for them you will find one. An awesome one.
Remember, size doesnt matter, its whats inside that counts, it just might take a little while for everyone else to realize.
Hope I helped,
Love ya babe,
Angie91
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