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boyfriend doesnt have friends=[ F/15
basically.. my boyfriend has no friends. Like he talks to people and everything and nobody doesnt like him, but he doesnt call anyone up and hangs out with them. He says that its because theyre not his childhood friends but i think thats bull because new kids make friends too. His parents have told him this and i did too jokingly.. until i found out he realizes it too and feels bad i told him its not a big deal but i just wish he could have people to hang out with like i do. What should i do? Thanks.
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i disagree with the girl below me you should care cause your apart of his life and it looks bad on your rep if your bf has no friends. first off dont be rude to him about it just like tell him he needs to hang out with more people. like take him arond with your friends and have your girlfriends brgin there guy freinds and they might get along and you can have a whole group to hang out with
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hey!
First of all, its awesome that you care about him, but its his life, he needs to be the one to make new friends and he will,if you get in the middle of it, he may feel that he needs to get friends in order to look like a good person and in turn a good boyfriend.
Don't pressure him, and dont tell him why he needs new friends, if he doesnt think he needs them, then he doesnt, if he thinks he does, then he'll come to you for help, keep yourself open to talk, but dont push yourself on him.
If he asks you for advice, tell him how you met your friends, tell him to join clubs (etc) and talk to people on MSn (or whatever you use for IM).
But remember, to each his own. You may really enjoy hanging out with people on friday nights, but he may rather staying home watching movies, or going on the internet or something. If he really wants to change, and make new friends, he will, just give hima change to do it himself before you do something okay? Hope I helped, let me know if you need anything else.
Love ya,
Angie91
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