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trouble with the friends again.. in one week this stinks!
ahh Stevens still in ISS... and so's Nick.
if you got my question like 2 nights ago it was about my friend Steven sticking up for me to Nick who caled me Butch because like all my friends are guys.. well today we had cooking and I got stuck wiht becky.. thank good DJ,JJ, and Nathen. Well im friends with Nathen.. and JJ was making jokes about how its a womens job to cook and all this sexist crap.. well then Cole joined and Nathen already hated this kid so they got in a talking arguement and as Nathen walked away he like said to me under his breath..
"Err I wished he'd die.. of cancer."
Well I tweaked on him because ive senn what cancer does to people and after a while there gone. like there bodys still on earth but anything else is gone.. and I screamed at him!
I was like WHAT! I was like noo even I cant stand Cole but never EVER would I wish death on anyone!! Expecially not cancer.." and he was like oo oo i didnt mean it like that.. I was you still said it! what is wrong with you.. have you seen what cancer does to people! and my Uncle passed away November 4th of last year and not a day goes by i dont think of him.. I love him and he lived 9 months after finding out he had cancer but maybe 6 months tops into it he was gone.. and i told him this.he was like ughh oo.. ee..
And i remember in the last question i said all my guy friends were just friends but I knew I did have feelings about Nathen.. and I never expected this from him HE KNEW about my Uncle but he still said it..
Well i started crying and actually ran to the ISS room to talk to Steven
Mrs Berry it was cool aslong as we were quite. Well I hugged him.. and basicly cried on his shoulder.. I told him everything about me liking him and how he said it and Stevens attitude changed completely.. first he was like ohh come here.. are you okay like completely friend.. next minete he stil cared but i could tell i hurt his feelings. And now im not sure about anything like does Steven like me??? I love Steven as a brother as a best friend as someone i can count on.. not a boyfriend. Well i had to leave and as I hugged Steven he was stiff..
I had PE afterwards and I have that class with Nathen and he just looked at me..
I dont want to be the person who cries alot of but at the moment that doesnt madder.. im gunna lose two of my good friends over something thats Nathens fault.. but i like Nathen i think because when he sai it i wanted to claw at him..
Explain to me why im feeling like ahhhhhhhhh
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Well, you're feeling AHHHHHH because you're confused. You like Nathen, but your personal experience with your Uncle and what Nathen said interacted, which made you upset still. In order to make things right with him, I really think you should sit down with Nathen, and just be straight up like, 'I was really hurt by what you said, and I know you didn't mean it like that, but I need to know that you won't say something like that again.' And even if he does some other day, you have to understand that you're teenagers, and it's common for people to wish death upon people and not mean it, you know? I know it's hard to brush off, but it's something you have to learn to do.
As for Steven, don't worry about his feelings. Focus on yours and Nathen's right now. If Steven cuts himself off from you or starts acting strange, try and talk to him and ask him what you did, or what you can do to help him get over whatever it is he's going through. If he does like you, just tell him that he could find someone else and that you honestly just don't like him like that. If he is the brother best friend you're describing, he will understand and still be your friend. If he freaks out and decides you're not friends, he's not worth it.
Hope I helped!
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