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guys are....
16/f
why cant i ever find the right guy for me? ok i know i aint that pretty its just my boobs that the guys are after(i got DDs)..... i dont even have THAT bad a rep but still im surrounded by all the bitches.... why cant i ever attract the right kind of guy? and when they find out im not that kind of girl they dich and someone else takes their place....starting the whole mess all over again! ive only lived in this town a year and its already drivin me insain, i mean the other guys at my old town in austin they never acted like this and i dont think ive changed im still that quiet redhead i always was!
why are the guys only doin this to me i mean they dont bother the other girls who have DDs or bigger.... only me!? how can i tell if a guy likes me for me and not just the boobs? i actually want to find someone who will love me even if i didnt have DDs. i really like my friend bret and i think he likes me... im not sure but how do i find out if he likes me for the right reasons? im more that just boobs, ya know, so how do i get the guys to see that?????
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erm ok first i would say that your boobs are part of you,it's not like two seperate parts or an accessory or something,it's you,lol.so yeah,they like you.
and about the guy stuff,well it's just male instinct but if you really wanna tell,look at him eye to eye,if he stares down then probably he likes your boobs or if you look at him and his eyes like go everywhere around the room and like try to glance at your boobs everytime.
Another thing,make your personality stand out,be friendly,outspoken and sometimes don't talk too much at every single chance,just say something when the right opportunity comes and you have something ironic,random or funny to say.It makes you mysterious but still unique cause you say something at the right time,well that's my suggestion for standing in terms of character
also,if you don't want guys to like you just for your boobs,a drastic action would be to like...i don't know,maybe keep it down with a bra or something,or wear a jacket,again,that's a wierd way,but it might work,cause the guys would stop staring and maybe look at you,the whole you.
ciao,that's just my advice,hope it works
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honey you said it yourself when they find out you wont sleep with them they are gone, the right one will stay! and other girls may have dd but face it there is something about red heads that drive men wild. yea im one too, my ex was just as shallow my hair changed color on its own to a brownish and he bailed on me. crazy guys. you sais you dont have that bad of a rep. well it might have got spiced up a bit, like the ones you said no to said you did, and the ones you only went so far with said you went all the way, you may be sleeping with only one guy and by the time its over you supposedly slept with all hid friends, and his friends guys wanna out due each other. i sat in a car with 4 guy friends at lunch totally innocent and by the end of school i was hearing about an orgy, and then the slime started rolling in trying to get some, it took a while but several 100 nos later i found someone good, you will to just follow your instincts and you will do fine, and dont get in the dumps over this. BRIE
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