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Wow.. He's Amazinggg.. But Yeahh..
Well I've Been Dating This Guy, I'm 13 He's 16, He Breaks Up With Me Constantly.. For The Dumbest Reasons.. He's Like My Twinn I Meann I've Only Known Him Like A Month.. The First Day I Met Him, We Really Hit It Off, Because We're So Alike.. After The Second Day Of Meeting Him, He Asks Me Out, I Say Yes.. Blah Blah Blah.. And I Had Never Met This Guy In Real Life, I Met Him Online Through My Friend Emily, Who I Had Also Met Online, But She Started Going 2 My School This Year... I Arranged To Meet Him In Real Life On Fridayy At The Moviess.. And He Was There,And I Was Just Thinking *OMFG He's Sooo HOTT, And He's Mine!* I Didn't Really Know This Guy, But I Talked To Him On The Phone And The Computer. He Kept Flirting With My other Friend Who Was There That Was Also His Friend.. And I Was Pissed Off.. After The Movie Was Over We All Went Our Seperate Wayss.. And My Friend Amber Comes Running Up To Me, She HATES This Guy Idk Why Tho.. And Me And The Guy Were Walkingg Down The Road, Because We Had About 40 Minutes Before I Had To Go Home. And I Have Never Kissed A Boy Beforee.. We Walked Down An Empty Alleyy And He Grabbs My Ass And Starts Making Out With Me.. Well Me Totally Confused, And I Had No Fuckingg Clue What I Was Supposed To Do.. And I Was Really Concerned That This Would Happen.. And He Had Like Slobered All Over Me And Soo I Was Thinking, He Would Be Mad If I Wiped His Kiss Off Wouldn't He?.. Now, I Need Advice What Are You Supposed To Do While Making Out With A Guy?, Especially A Hott, Experienced One.. Because I've Hung Out With Him 2 Times After That.. And He Says I'm A Good Kisser But I'm Not Sure If He's Just Saying That, Or What.. We're Broken Up For Now, But Not For Long, Because I Guess I'll Be Hanging Out With Him Tomorrow, Or Something, He Wrote Me A Really Long Note.. And He Won't Give It To Me Until I See Him Again.. Because He's Gayy.. I HATE That He Flirts With Every Single Girl He Talks Too.. It's Not Like I Wanna Be The Only Girl In His Life I Just Wanna Be The Only One That Matters.. I Know I'm Possesive But I Love Him Soo Muchh.. And It Hurts Soo Badd.. That He's Not Mine.. At The Moment.. What Do I Do?
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please ignore the silly peron's comment below..."grab his dick"?!...she's thirteen...no offecnce honey, i know you are no longer a child - but you are JUST only a teen,and at this age, it really should be innocent (make out or wahtever) - rushing into things is bad. especialy if the guy brings it on...like he did - i mean - come on, you go into an alley, he grabs you , makes out with you, and GRABS YOUR ASS. what sort of a saine respectable 16 year old male would do that? obviously not him. i would break it off with him as soon as possible - he's only going to hurt you sweeetie. and if youre thinking " i love him, he wouldnt do that"...lets rewind. he flirts with your friends. end of. he doesnt care. i know i sound awful and plesase dont hate me, but if it wasnt true, he may say he cares, but it doestt mean that he actually means it. a guy can look you in the eye and say he loves you - believe me - they dont always mean it.
i was in a similar position to yours.my first boyfriend was like yours, always grabbing and shit. you dont want that.you want to be respected. next he'll be saying "put your hand down my pants" cuz thats what mine said to me. he made me do alot of things i didnt wanna do, and being stupid (even though we were the same age- he was VERY experienced tho :S), i couldnt say no as i didt want him to dump me. well thats the best thing thats ever happened to me. him dumping me made me realise what a creep he was. now im in love and happy with my respectable boyfriend.
i hope that you will see that if you end it with him, you wont be presured in any way any longer. and if he asks for you back, YOU SAY NO. because if you say yes, he'll get you where he wants. and that is the most dangerous thing he can do. to have power over you.
by the sounds of it, your friend Amber knows he's a jerk - which is WHY she hates him.
youre broken up at the moment - KEEP IT THAT WAY. by going back to him each time shows signs of weakness. tell him to screw the pathetic letters, if he wants to see you, it'll be out of choice, not balckmail, which is kind of what he's doing.
just say no to him. then he'll realise that he cant control you :)
a boy who constantly breaks up with you isnt worth it anyay, as there IS someone else out there for you somewhere.
if you dont break up with this guy, please promise me that you will NOT let him walk all over you, or pressure you into stuff and treat you like dirt. if he does, do NOT suffer alone. no matter how bad he may be to you, or what he may make you do, there will always be someone there for you. if you cant go to your friends about this, leave me a message if you want.
thats what im here for :)
you're only young, and id hate to see you get hurt by a boy at this age. have fun with your freinds. by all means have fun with guys, play spin the bottle to have carefree meaningless but fun kisses, enjoy life!! but for heavens sake dont do anything stupid with this guy. you dont want a relationship at 13...you'll get bored! lol
good luck hunny, and i hope it goes well.
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Dia (alex)
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wow okay if i were you i would get as far away as you can from this guy hes 3 years older then you and you have only known him for a month and he keeps breaking up with you..he obviously doesnt care that much about you, plus you met him over the internet and he took you in a dark alley and started making out with you the first day he met you in person, and if you guys are already fighting in the first month good luck going out for longer then that
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well he is 16 first off and your 13, he doesnt want to be with you, cause your so young and he will be mocked. but he will use you. So either go along with it, or stop. your choice.
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