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okay so the boks by Ally Carter like
-I'd Tell You I Love Your But Then I'd Have To Kill You.
&&
-Cross my Hearts Hope To Spy.

Well I loved them both and I was wondering if anyone knew if she was making a third and when..
Anything would be excellent!
Thankss
(oo please tell me shes making a third Ill Die!!) (link)
yes she is but she hasn;t released a date yet


Well I've Been Dating This Guy, I'm 13 He's 16, He Breaks Up With Me Constantly.. For The Dumbest Reasons.. He's Like My Twinn I Meann I've Only Known Him Like A Month.. The First Day I Met Him, We Really Hit It Off, Because We're So Alike.. After The Second Day Of Meeting Him, He Asks Me Out, I Say Yes.. Blah Blah Blah.. And I Had Never Met This Guy In Real Life, I Met Him Online Through My Friend Emily, Who I Had Also Met Online, But She Started Going 2 My School This Year... I Arranged To Meet Him In Real Life On Fridayy At The Moviess.. And He Was There,And I Was Just Thinking *OMFG He's Sooo HOTT, And He's Mine!* I Didn't Really Know This Guy, But I Talked To Him On The Phone And The Computer. He Kept Flirting With My other Friend Who Was There That Was Also His Friend.. And I Was Pissed Off.. After The Movie Was Over We All Went Our Seperate Wayss.. And My Friend Amber Comes Running Up To Me, She HATES This Guy Idk Why Tho.. And Me And The Guy Were Walkingg Down The Road, Because We Had About 40 Minutes Before I Had To Go Home. And I Have Never Kissed A Boy Beforee.. We Walked Down An Empty Alleyy And He Grabbs My Ass And Starts Making Out With Me.. Well Me Totally Confused, And I Had No Fuckingg Clue What I Was Supposed To Do.. And I Was Really Concerned That This Would Happen.. And He Had Like Slobered All Over Me And Soo I Was Thinking, He Would Be Mad If I Wiped His Kiss Off Wouldn't He?.. Now, I Need Advice What Are You Supposed To Do While Making Out With A Guy?, Especially A Hott, Experienced One.. Because I've Hung Out With Him 2 Times After That.. And He Says I'm A Good Kisser But I'm Not Sure If He's Just Saying That, Or What.. We're Broken Up For Now, But Not For Long, Because I Guess I'll Be Hanging Out With Him Tomorrow, Or Something, He Wrote Me A Really Long Note.. And He Won't Give It To Me Until I See Him Again.. Because He's Gayy.. I HATE That He Flirts With Every Single Girl He Talks Too.. It's Not Like I Wanna Be The Only Girl In His Life I Just Wanna Be The Only One That Matters.. I Know I'm Possesive But I Love Him Soo Muchh.. And It Hurts Soo Badd.. That He's Not Mine.. At The Moment.. What Do I Do? (link)
wow okay if i were you i would get as far away as you can from this guy hes 3 years older then you and you have only known him for a month and he keeps breaking up with you..he obviously doesnt care that much about you, plus you met him over the internet and he took you in a dark alley and started making out with you the first day he met you in person, and if you guys are already fighting in the first month good luck going out for longer then that


How should I tell my friends that I'm moving 14 hours away? Today is the 1st day I'm "allowed" to tell people & I just don't know how. I told one friend that was over at my house on saturday & she about started crying. A lot of people I just see at school. Should I tell them individually or what? I want to tell my closer friends first but I just don't know. I won't see them very often when I go away. A lot of them will probably think I'm kidding but I'm definatly not. I'm moving in about 2 and half months at the latest. Any advice? thanks sooo much! (link)
okay my best friend moved far away when i was in 8th grade and now im a junior but what she moved she told all our close friends at once, and then later before she moved she talked to us each individually like a goodbye thing and about the kids at school that you dont hang out with but you talk to at school dont go around telling everyone individually if your schools anything like mine once one person know then pretty much the whole school dose


i lived out in the country for a long time when i was younger. i had two neighbors. well, i moved a bigger town, just through junior high, when i did most of my learning and growing up, well when i came back, my neighbor who is 2 grades above me got REALLY hott. i was gone for like, 3 years. but, anyway, he flirts with me a couple times a week, and he always looks at me. ive been told im pretty a lot, but you never can tell if the guy you like feels that way about you. and the other day, i over heard him tell one of his friends that he thought that i was hott. but its like, "WHY WONT YOU ASK ME OUT ALREADY??!!" its not that he isnt ready for a relationship or whatever, its just im pretty sure he likes me at least a little bit. im a little intimadated by his friends, though. its not that they are mean or you know, the usual popular kids, cuz i am in the popular group, but for some reason, just because they're older, they intimadate me. how should i get him to notice me more?? i only see him during lunch and after lunch when the whole high school sits outside for break. (link)
well if hes your neighbor why dont you just be casually doing something in your yard when you see him out side and then spark up a convo


My life is seriously messed up so if your gunna help please be serious about it.

First off, i am 15/f. Ok, so im currently seeing this guy. He is 18. We have been together for a year and a half now. Things between us have been very bad and we took some time apart to re-evaluate our feelings. We decided to give it another try with some changes.

Before, i was quite dependent on him and we saw eachother everyday, and if we didnt see eachother he would call. This obviously isnt that healthy in a long term relationship so it was a thing that was changed. Now, we dont see eachother hardly at all. I had noticed from the time we did spend together that it wasnt the same. I was beginning to get the impression he didnt love me. I wasnt feeling it, if you get what i mean.

So i talked to him about it. He said he had closed off his feelings for me a long time ago, when we were having problems because it hurt him too much. He said it would take time for him to love me again.

All through this, I have been talking to one of my ex's a lot. We have become quite close and he wants us to get back together. He's been interested quite a lot during the time ive been with my boyfriend, but nothing has ever happened. I miss him a lot and i think im interested. He thinks im single because... well. i was angry at my boyfriend and he was treating me badly at the time.

Now, im left with a boyfriend who doesnt love me, an ex who wants to be with me... all this is on top of other problems that dont come under this catagory.

Basically at the moment, i feel life is pointless. I have no reason to get up in the morning, no motivation. You guys have to help please xoxoxox (link)
okay im sorry if this is a little blunt but to me it seams very obvious what you should do you have a boyfriend who pretty much said he doesnt love you anymore and another boy who really dose like you, i think you know you want to go with your ex you just cant admit it because you have been with your other boyfriend for so long, if i were you i would go for my ex


hi i have another question...you told me that i should tell her but should i do it in person at the highschool football game on thursday..but theres a chance she might be with her boyfriend so i wouldnt be alone with her or should i do it on the phone...text her or online? thanks in advance (link)
well i dont know if you should do it at the game with all those people ya know it might make her a little uncomfortable but its up to you ..maybe like durring passing time at school?? or maybe ask her to study together or something i would deffinitly do it when your alone..and if your shy online or in a text would be okay too so she has time to react ya know? let me know if you have any other questions. and let me know how it gose=)


15/f

I just don't know i mean i think he likes me but i'm not sure.

I had gotten mad at him the other day because he was teasin me about this boy who like me but i don't like him.

so i stopped talking to the guy i like lets call him D and today he was all like i publicly apologize i'm sorry infront of half the class to me.

then he started singing don't cha by pussy cat dolls but changed the lyrics

Don't cha wish ya girlfriend hott as her to me!

i thought it was cute but does he like me or was he being nice?

i would LOVE some guys' help on this Thanks!

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okay well im not a guy but dont you know when guys tease you its because they like you??? its still true at this age. he probubly was teasing you about that other boy because he wanted to see your reaction and if you liked the other kid or not. thats way cute that he sang and apologized in front of the class wait it out and see what happens maybe ask him to do homework or hang out sometime soon


ok i just turned 13 a week ago and i'm in 7th grade, and i havn't had a boyfriend yet...i'm pretty sure its because... i'm ugly, i mean i wear glasses i'm 5'0 or 5'1 and i'm fat... (135) waht do i do??i cant talk to a friend or cousin or aunt, and my mom passed away. so i live with my dad. what should i do?? please please please help me.
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first of all 135 isnt even fat alot of kids thin out as they get older, dont go looking for a boyfriend because all the kids at school have one wait until you find someone you actually like other wise you will always remeber you frist boyfriend as some you didnt really like , just because you wear glasses dosent mean ur ugly but if thats the problem ask you dad for contacts and being short dosent make you ugly i know alot of short pretty people. the biggest thing is to belive in your self if you even need someone to talk to send me a message i would be more then happy to give you advise on make up boys or whatever you need


ok i want to start going tanning but i would have NO idea how to do it and like if i need to be 18 or whatever and i want to do it naked so can someone walk me through ALL the steps from the moment i walk in to the moment come out thanx a ton
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well it depends some people dont care some make you be 16 but its not like the check for id so you can just say ur 16 but anyways you pretty much just walk in and say i want to go in a medium bed for 10 min or they may even suggest a time you can ask what they think you should do if its your first time. if you tell them its your first time they will walk you thru it


i know this is long but i really need some help.......hi im a soph guy and i like this freshman girl and i met her 2 years ago and just met her again this year in math class..anyway theres something about her that makes me really care for her i havent told her that yet but the problem is that we were talking since school sarted about a week and a half and on saturday we were supposed to hang out but her mom made her go to her neighbors get together and that same night a guy asked her out and she said yes...we talked a little since then but it seems like its not the same since i dont know her thta well i didnt think this would bother me but it really does so i dont know if i should tell her how i feel and risk her either not talking to me or possibly have her feel that way about me too...but if i dont i feel like i wont know whta could happen..or should i wait until they break up? please help im so confused thanks in advance (link)
this is a tough situation im a girl in highschool to and i get really confused when guys tell me they like me when i have a boyfriend but my current boyfrined told me he liked me when i was with my ex and now we have been together for like 6 months so i guess it depends on what your willing to risk, her not talking to you anymore? or her breaking up with her bf for you? if i was you i would tell her how i feel for sure!


To many boys. I don't know. I just got done going out with this really nice kid. He was a player though. He broke up with me 5 days after. He said everything was going fine before. We watched a movie, snuggled, swam. The usual. Well that night he broke up with me and was like " I can't take the rumors " I shouldn't have gone out with him in the first place, for 2 reasons: 1 he took this toy thing and won't give it back, and 2 he is a player. He said we were goin to last forever though, psh. whatever. now he is going back out with his ex. CRAZINESS! because she isn't aloud to have a boyfriend so they won't ever get to do anything together. ugh. back on topic. i like only a few guys at my school. i don't know how to tell if they are players or not. I really hate breaking up with people and i hate when they break up with me. i don't know if i should like someone this year...the hot ones either have girlfriends or they are going to. and the ugly ones that are nice, aren't experienced. what do i do?? i need your advice. (link)
just because the boys a player dont rule him out my bf used to be sorta of a player(had a rep for cheating) and now we have been going out for like 9 months. shouldnt pick a guy and be like i wanna go out with him this year. just play it single for a while hang out with a bunch of guys if no one intrests you then looks like you will be single for a while but dont just go out with someone just to say you have a boyfrined


Okay, so 2 questions...both of them leading into another. Anyways when you shave (legs) is it better to use a razor and shaving cream? If so which brand of razor is the best and which shaving cream? Or is it better to use those hair remover crema product thing? Such as Nair...and which product works the best? Don't say nair becuase I'm allergic to it I think...it leave little tiny red bumps (link)
when you use a razor that hair comes back way faster try veet! thats a good hair removal and it only takes like3 min


Alright, me and and this chick who used to be my friend are in a quarrel. I havent paid her back for this t-shirt she got me and i didnt give her the money i said i would because i figured i'd have a job by now.. anyways, i also said that she shouldnt say other guys are hot when she has a boyfriend, its wrong and she shouldnt do that, i was just tryin to be a friend but now shes mad and i said that we will never be friends again..and im afraid shes gonna do something because we've fought before and she did some nasty things...(perverted)... (link)
you should just tell her taht your sorry and your will pay her back as soon as you can and explaine the situation


ok well i havent seen my friend maggie in almost an entire year (she goes to a different school), and i'm going to get one of those paper things to invite her to my homecoming so we can hang out and stuff and she can meet my friends and when i told my friend alyson she was like well then im not going because you'll have her and i was just like okaayy and i kinda shrugged it off.


then she kept talking about it (alyson) and today she was like "yep im not going to homecoming" and i was like "oh" and she goes "since __ will be hanging out with __ and blank with blank and so on and youre taking maggie so whatever" and i was like "well im not taking her to homecoming with me, shes just coming alone with me, to hang out with us, and its not like i wont talk to my other friends and stuff you know?" and then she suddenly was like "i have to go. bye" and i was all quiet and then i was just like "what the hell?" and shes like i have to go. and i was like "why are you pissed? " and she goes "i'm NOT pissed" and i was like "so why do you have to leave all of a sudden then?" and she goes "cuz." and i was like "fine bye." and she hung up!!!!!!!!!


i have no idea what i did and its really pissing me off because i didnt do anything! and when i said the thing about maggie comnig and i would still hang out with other friends i wasnt even bitching it was just a "hey its nice weather out" kind of tone to my voice so i have no idea. and she was the one who kept talking about homecoming. i just dont see why. if you have any ideas? thanks and sorry its so freaking long! lol


and ps. i dont think it would matter anyway if i did talk to maggie the whole time! i havent seen her in a year and i see alyson every single day at school! gah!!!! (link)
well explaine to alyson the situtation and tell her your not trying to replace her or anything you just thought it would be a good time to start up an old friendship and tell her you wont ignore her at homecoming and if she doesnt understand she will get over it if shes really urfiend


Alright.. so.. my and my boyfriend did it without a condom.. i know a VERY DUMB idea, anyways.. i am absolutely terrified..so is my boyfriend, he is panicing so much.. i have no idea what to do.. i really need some advice...

-Kell (link)
take a preg test or call plan parent hood or something and ask them what to do!


i dated my ex for 2 years.
he broke up with me around 2 months ago.
during the day i feel good about myself, like i can get over him, but one the night time comes around, i cry, alot. he still kisses me and holds me and stuff, but he talks to these 2 girls that don't like me, and they always talk a lot about me, and seeing him flirting w/ them and stuff hurts me alot. so i have 2 questions
1) how can i make nights any easier for me? i'm so sick of feeling sorry for myself.
2) how can i just ignore who he talks to. i try so hard not to, but i can't help it. (link)
okay well first of all letting him kiss you and hold you is going to make it worse when you see him with other girls if your trying to get over him then thats going to make it 100 times worse you need to tell him that you still love him or you need to distance your self from him until its over even tho that might seem hard for a long time its better because in the long run watching him with other girls is going to be worse


I asked a girl out and she rejected me cause she said she wasn't ready for a relationship but she still liked me we still talked and were still good friends but about a week after i asked out my friend i started talking to a different girl that i meet through a friend so i told her that i was going to talk to her and she got mad at me and i feel kind of bad was i wrong to start talking to this girl what should i do (link)
well she obviously had feelings for you or she wouldent care so think of it in a good way! you can talk to who ever you want just dont flirt or if you start to like this new girl, you have to tell the old one just be honest


hello i'm 14/f i havn't started my period this month. i am a virgen. i'm really scared and don't know what to do. is it possible for you to skip a month? please tell me if this is normal. i'm rally scared because this has never happened to me. thanks please help! (link)
dont worry if your a virgin then you have nothing to worry about! people skip a months all the time i had a friend who didnt get it for 9 months and she was a virgin!


I am in love with this guy. And he feels the same toward me. However, he is better than me in every way. He's smarter, better-looking, and so on. This makes me feel inferior and insecure. I feel I'm not worthy of his love. I feel extremely small when I'm with him. I wish I could be as intelligent as him in order to be more worthy of his love. I hate myself. I hate my shortcomings. My biggest fear is that he would abandon me because of the fact I'm not as great as him. As a genius, he has every reason to despise me. He outshines me in every area. Whenever I detect a tiny sign that he might ignore/hate me, I feel like dying. Because of these, I'm not myself when I'm with this guy. I care TOO much about how he thinks of me. I appear very nervous, hypersensitive, and stupid. And this makes things worse. I am over-conscious about every word I say to him. I fear something I say would sound silly according to him and that he would despise me. I feel I'm just a silly little girl in his eyes. I know in fact he loves me. But I can never enjoy his love because of my feeling of inadequacy. I feel I need to be a much, much better person to deserve his love. I always try to be smarter so as to be "equal" to him, yet only end up making a fool of myself. This drives me crazy. What can I do now? (link)
nothing is ever going to change if you dont stop thinking your not as good as him. if he tells you he loves you then he dose and if he didnt think you met his standards or was "equal" to him that he would be with you and tell you that he loves you




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