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My life is seriously messed up so if your gunna help please be serious about it.
First off, i am 15/f. Ok, so im currently seeing this guy. He is 18. We have been together for a year and a half now. Things between us have been very bad and we took some time apart to re-evaluate our feelings. We decided to give it another try with some changes.
Before, i was quite dependent on him and we saw eachother everyday, and if we didnt see eachother he would call. This obviously isnt that healthy in a long term relationship so it was a thing that was changed. Now, we dont see eachother hardly at all. I had noticed from the time we did spend together that it wasnt the same. I was beginning to get the impression he didnt love me. I wasnt feeling it, if you get what i mean.
So i talked to him about it. He said he had closed off his feelings for me a long time ago, when we were having problems because it hurt him too much. He said it would take time for him to love me again.
All through this, I have been talking to one of my ex's a lot. We have become quite close and he wants us to get back together. He's been interested quite a lot during the time ive been with my boyfriend, but nothing has ever happened. I miss him a lot and i think im interested. He thinks im single because... well. i was angry at my boyfriend and he was treating me badly at the time.
Now, im left with a boyfriend who doesnt love me, an ex who wants to be with me... all this is on top of other problems that dont come under this catagory.
Basically at the moment, i feel life is pointless. I have no reason to get up in the morning, no motivation. You guys have to help please xoxoxox
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Okay, first of all you need to cut it off with your current boyfriend,you can't stay around if he doesn't have those feelings for you. Second is I wouldn't go out with your ex either because there was a reason you both broke up a long time ago. so I would break it off with both of them. Hope I helped.
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To be honest, we cannot decide for you. You are the only one who can sense what you truly feel.
Which one do you love more? If it's your boyfriend stay with him. If not go with your ex. There really isn't anything any of us can tell you. I'm sure you know who you want so just follow your feelings.
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Goodness. Read this and answer this-Does it sound pathetic?
"I'm having boy troubles. I feel like I'm tied in the middle and my emotions are so mixed up. I have no reasons to get through the day. Why even ever get up?"
Yes, it does sound pathetic. There are much more important things in life other than guys. What happened to friends? Family. School..okay maybe school isn't really motivating..
First things first...do NOT ever get back with your ex. You guys broke up and you guys are each others ex's for a reason. If it was a big nasty break up, you don't want to go through that again. If it was the small little quarrles, you guys won't be able to make it since you guys couldn't settle on a little argument without breaking up. Do not go out with your ex again and keep your distance.
Your boyfriend right now...he's 18 and you're 15. He's lived 3 years more than you. You still have 4 or 3 more years of high school left where there are tons of guys. Not to mention college and just LIFE. If this guy has no feelings for you and you're having doubts about this relationship, it's pointless. This is all giving you unecessary stress! Can you eat sleep breath and just live without him? Of course you can.
I'm not telling you you should do this but I'm suggesting this: Break up with your current boyfriend. Stay single and sort out your emotions. Enjoy it and stay single for at least3-4 months. See what has changed. Who you have feeligns for. Plus when this guy goes off to college or is already in college, it's definately not going to work out too well in the long run..
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okay im sorry if this is a little blunt but to me it seams very obvious what you should do you have a boyfriend who pretty much said he doesnt love you anymore and another boy who really dose like you, i think you know you want to go with your ex you just cant admit it because you have been with your other boyfriend for so long, if i were you i would go for my ex
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