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nights are hard.
i dated my ex for 2 years.
he broke up with me around 2 months ago.
during the day i feel good about myself, like i can get over him, but one the night time comes around, i cry, alot. he still kisses me and holds me and stuff, but he talks to these 2 girls that don't like me, and they always talk a lot about me, and seeing him flirting w/ them and stuff hurts me alot. so i have 2 questions
1) how can i make nights any easier for me? i'm so sick of feeling sorry for myself.
2) how can i just ignore who he talks to. i try so hard not to, but i can't help it.
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Easy!!
Its obvious he is not the rite guy because he flirtin w/ ppl that dont like yu
Yu'll get over it some how :)))
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okay well first of all letting him kiss you and hold you is going to make it worse when you see him with other girls if your trying to get over him then thats going to make it 100 times worse you need to tell him that you still love him or you need to distance your self from him until its over even tho that might seem hard for a long time its better because in the long run watching him with other girls is going to be worse
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It's going to hurt for awhile. Only time can heal this type of thing. However, you're not making it any easier on yourself by continuing to be intimate with him. You're not in a relationship with him anymore. No matter how much you still like him, he broke up with you. He doesn't deserve your kisses or your hugs. If he likes you, wants you, or needs you that badly he shouldn't have broken up with you. Stop kissing him, stop holding him, and stop whatever other intimate things you are doing with him. Not only does he not deserve them, the fact that you are doing that is making it very hard for you to get over him. It's going to take such a long time if you keep doing it. Every kiss is going to make you love him again. Every kiss is only contributing to his sexual pleasure. I mean, hey, why should he go out with you? He can be with other girls and STILL get some from you. Don't give it to him! It will help build up your confidence to be without him if you do. Seriously, ditch this jerk! He just keeps causing you more and more pain. Good luck.
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The answer to question 1 is...If he can get on with his life then so can you. Go out and have fun. Find a nice guy to talk to or even just have fun with the girls.
The answer to question 2 is...Lift your head up and stick your chest out. You need to realise you are better then those people are. If they don't like you fine, they don't have to and you don't have to like them either.
Don't worry. I know you'll be fine.
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