Question Posted Tuesday September 19 2006, 6:57 am
I asked a girl out and she rejected me cause she said she wasn't ready for a relationship but she still liked me we still talked and were still good friends but about a week after i asked out my friend i started talking to a different girl that i meet through a friend so i told her that i was going to talk to her and she got mad at me and i feel kind of bad was i wrong to start talking to this girl what should i do
adviceme3 answered Tuesday September 19 2006, 8:27 pm: Not at all. You're friend is just jealous, and if she isn't ready for a relationship, that doesn't mean that you aren't. Plus, you're not restricted to talking to any girls (unless you have a gf who feels differently). [ adviceme3's advice column | Ask adviceme3 A Question ]
Nobodys_Girl answered Tuesday September 19 2006, 5:20 pm: This girl must have strong feelings for you, because if she didn't she would have not gotton mad. Tell her that & see what she says. You didnt do anything wrong the girl didnt go with her real feelings about you, & you decide to go talk to other girls (Better then be all depressed over her) which was good. [ Nobodys_Girl's advice column | Ask Nobodys_Girl A Question ]
iiloveyouu answered Tuesday September 19 2006, 4:01 pm: well she obviously had feelings for you or she wouldent care so think of it in a good way! you can talk to who ever you want just dont flirt or if you start to like this new girl, you have to tell the old one just be honest [ iiloveyouu's advice column | Ask iiloveyouu A Question ]
MelLeDisko answered Tuesday September 19 2006, 3:21 pm: No, you're not wrong for talking to other girls. Dating a girl or not, you're allowed to talk to other girls and have them as friends. It's not a crime.
She is just being jealous, which can be a good thing because it shows that she likes you alot if she's getting jealous, but that's being a little over jealous if you're just TALKING.
Just talk to her about it. Tell her you're sorry that you got her upset, but she doesn't need to get upset at you talking to other girls. You like her, and only her. All the other girls you talk to are just friends.
karenR answered Tuesday September 19 2006, 3:04 pm: No, you were not wrong for talking to the other girl. You won't be wrong talking to ANY other girls.
Your friend is jealous. She has no right to be but she is all the same. It could be she changed her mind about dating you when she saw you talking to the other girl. If you are still interested in her ask her if she has changed her mind.
If she still claims she isn't ready then she will just have to learn to live with the fact that you are, and you aren't going to wait around for her. She shouldn't expect you to. :) [ karenR's advice column | Ask karenR A Question ]
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