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A year ago I moved to a condo and i met this girl, for now i will call her C. And C was a nice girl, she was like my best friend for a while and then i met her friend, K. Shit happened, and then I got into a fight with K and then i got intoa fight with C. But then, i made up with C and K. Then C moved and it was just me and K. Me and K have become the best of friends, we're blood sisters, but K is a total slut, and C has changed into a little ho. She dresses like a slut and calls herself 'the playboy master' cause she loves playboy to death. Now me and C always get into fights and then im always the one that goes back to her and wants to become her friend again. Me and K get into fights too and stop talking, but we end up being friends again after a day. Now K is telling me to be the bigger person and be friends with C again cause shes 'so much fun'and shit. I really dont want to be C's friend again cause we're just gonna end up fighting again. So, should i listen to K and make up with C or should I just forget about C? I really need some advice on this.
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Obviously u know what is right for you. Listen to your heart. I know it is hard wlaking around with people who like to be prettier than everybody else. They'd say stuff to me like: "Guys always want me" or " you know I'm gonna be prettier than you when we grow up, right) So I have kicked them to the curve after school changes they thought they had to change and become so damn arrogant so I'm like you treat like back up instead of a friend. Find somebody else. Sluts never go to far
Trust me on this one
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if you dont like a person, dont try to be friends with them.
it's simple as that.
don't let anyone try to persuade you otherwhise if you don't like what the person stands for.
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Well, I know K's just trying to help and be a good friend to you, but if you don't like the girl, you shouldn't MAKE yourself hang out with her and become her friend and go through this pointless fighting over and over again.
I'm not saying break off all contact with her, you guys can hang out and everything and just be "every now and then" friends who talk and stuff and hang out maybe every once and awhile ( only if you really want to though ) ; just keep the friendship casual.
So no real feelings are hurt, and you're keeping the peace, and hopefully there'll be no more continuous drama around you.
I hope I helped.
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You don't need to take K's advice on becoming friends with C again. If you aren't happy for most of the time you are friends with her, then why is it even worth it? It isn't. You may want to consider having her as a friend, just not a best friend. Then you won't be as close with her, but you can still hang out with her in a big group of people or something. & it's never good to be friends with a slut. all you'll be doing is getting yourself into trouble. believe me. hope i helped .<33
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Maybe you and C could become civil to eachother, but not friends? That doesnt involve sharing secrets, or hanging out just you two, but friendly conversation now and then, hanging out in a larger group. Make an effort. You could think to yourself, why do you guys fight so much? Is there an underlying problem your not addressing? Give this some serious thought and you will get your answer. best of luck xxxx
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well have you told her how you feel and stuff because if she was like a good friend like you say she is then she would care how you feel and why you don't want to hang around with her. tell her she's changed since you guys have become friends.
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