hi. im jenny and im 14. this dude, adam who i hang around with is one of my bezzi mates and i always use to flirt with him for a joke. now he sometimes full on firts and for some resason he has asked me to make out wit him on our next school trip to alton towers! OMG! why the hell would he want to do that? i dont want him to use me! but the other thing is i have realy deep feeling for him. but to make it even more complicated my friend jamie who is gay fancys him. AND! this guy i like adam is trying to decide wether he is gay or bi or strait and i dont want to confuse him!!!! help me!!!!
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? H3arts_Collid3 answered Sunday July 2 2006, 11:56 am: Well, you like him, and he wants to do that because he seems to like you. But then again your friend likes him, and he may like your friend. My opinion is that you talk to your friend first. I know that it's tough because he might get mad, but it may be a bigger even mess later. Ask Jamie if it's ok for you to like him and try to hook up with him. I mean, you wouldnt want to lose his friendship. If he doesnt care, then go and makeout with Adam. You're not tricking him in any way or confusing him, just helping him sort out his sexuality.
Hope that helps [ H3arts_Collid3's advice column | Ask H3arts_Collid3 A Question ]
Attention: NOTHING on this site may be reproduced in any fashion whatsoever without explicit consent (in writing) of the owner of said material, unless otherwise stated on the page where the content originated. Search engines are free to index and cache our content. Users who post their account names or personal information in their questions have no expectation of privacy beyond that point for anything they disclose. Questions are otherwise considered anonymous to the general public.