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My friend Tracee has had a couple boys this past year. I have not really, but I am not jealous. I don't try to get guys to like me because I haven't really found anyone I really like this past year. Thing is, I've heard that she's been saying stuff behind my back about it. That supposedly like no boys like me and I have no "expierence" and I don't know guys at al she supposedly said to my one friend. Like, if I don't care about it, why does she? Should I say something or let it go?

Be 110 with her.......let her know that you been hearing things that she have been saying.....if she say its true then let her know that your not a hoe (well you can sugar coat the hoe word) and you dont go sleeping around with anybody you saving yourself for the right one to come around. And let her know that she isnt a good friend to be going around talking about you like that. And if she got anything to say say it to your face let her know to keep it 110%.

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well my best friend was like a really good girl that did NOTHING wrong... and we've been friends for a longg time and our parnents are good friends too. but lately she has been getting in trouble and getting grounded..she smoke cigarettes and done weed sometimes and we got in a fight about that because im TOTALLY against it people have asked me to try it and im like nope..never! and my parents asked why she is always in trouble and im like well..because she tried weed and smoked some cigarettes..and theyre like SHE DID WHAT? theyre all worried that i did it and stuff and theyre like you better not do that! since im over at her housel ike 24/7. now my parents and my whole family think i do it or whatever just because she did it! she doesnt even really do it anymore and i always yell at her because its soo bad for her! i dont want my parents to think i am a druggie because im not i would never do that and ive told them that but i dont think they believe me!! what should i do?..i cant stop hanging out with my friend because i would die without her and plus i only really hangout with her and my other friend! ahh this is horrible!! :[


ive never tried ciggs or weed or anything in my entire life!

Tell them again that you have never doneany type of drug in your life, let them know wouldnt they see symptoms of you doing drugs like your grades dropping and you getting in trouble like your friend is. And if they still dont believe you then tell them to let you take a drug test to prove them wrong.

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hi,
i hav 3 friends that were my best lets say friend 1,2 and,3. i overheard them talkin about some one i assume is me. friend 1 said my name n then started whispering, friend 2 then said- i know with a dirty look and friend 3 kept on looking at me and then said- i don't like her either. i got upset and really really really really angry! i even start crying. my other friends were comforting me but im stressing over it, if i made a mistake because i stopped sitting next to them and talking to them.
about 2 days later(today) i was sitting next to friend 1(the closest) because i wasn't allowed to move and i passed her a note asking her wahat it was they didn't like about me and that i heard them talking about me. she just pushed it away . now i always hear them talking about me. it really hurts because i do care for friend 1 alot(not bothered too much about the 2 though).
they've started ignoring me completely.
i want to talk to them again but i don't want to
seem like a suck-up...help me please.
i kind of miss them...
yours stressingly
sad sad girl

Im sry because i cant tell you going up to them and saying stop talking to me and be my friends will help because it wont. The arent your real friend and really aint BEST friends if they sat there and talked about you in front of your face. Go on with your life like they aint bothering you.....and just maybe they may run back to you cuz they see you aint missing them. But sucking up to them isnt helping. Sometimes when we grow we grow apart, and im guessing it about that time.

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dear susan,
i have this problem. my problem is 14 years old. i worry about her everyday. she used to be my sweet little beanpole but now all she cares about is her boyfriend and school and her mom.she pretty much forgot i even existed.i dont know what to do! please help me get my little sister back!!
love,
anonymous

Have a sister day with her. Let her know that you feel neglected now. Tell her how you feel, and how u miss just chillin with her and talking. Tell her you want your sister back.

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I was looking up birth control, for a friend. & I left it on there. & she saw it. Now, I don't know what to say. Because she doesn't believe me, & thinks I'm sexually active. Which I'm not. I'm only 13 for heavensake. What do I say to make her believe me???
Please help me.
Thanks!

Sit your mom down and let her know that you have a friend thats sexually active, and you wanted to help her put and think of everyway to be safe because there arer alot of diseases out there. Then soften her up and tell her if you were haven sex that she would be the first one to know. That you would come to her if you have done anything with a boy. Let her know that she wouldnt be left out the loop, and again repeat the information was just for a good friend. Of course dont say the friend name because she might go talk to her momz.

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hey! well im 15/f
and allright so ive been having boy troubles lately..i was kinda crushin a little bit on this guy and we were flirtin alot until i find out he just got a girlfriend so that went down then drain and now i feel like i cant flirt with him anymore. so i just sit there but he kinda still flirts with me! i mean i spilt somethin on my shorts lol and so i was changin into my boxer shorts in my friends room and i guess he told my friends sister to open the door and pull down the towel i had because supposively he wanted to see my ass and i dont know i didnt start flirting with him because i backed off since i found out he had a girlfriend but he still kinda flirts with me! he is so adorable and sweet and we can have such good talks and i was talkin to him on AIM and hes like jokin around sayin ohh didnt this boy look sexy today and i was like haha real funny! and hes like just kidding but we'll find you a boy dont worry. hes just sooo sweet!! but he really likes this girl and i guess has liked her for awhile but then why does he do this with me?! and like for stuff on AIM or whatever hes always like i love you lindsey?!
soo im just so confused...

I say let him know stop playing with my emotions. Be the aggresser, remind him he has a girlfriend. Tell him your not going to be the other chick. If he likes her tell him to stop flirting with you because thats not helping the situation of you having feelngs for him.

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okay so theres this boy and i REALLY LOVE him..im only 13 and people tell me i dont really know what love is but like love isnt a maybe thing right..? yeah.. you know if you love someone and i do love him but he used to act like he liked me but now he doesnt anymore it it makes me really sad..i feel like im not good enough but all my friends tell me im to good for him..( but hey their suppose to right? ) i think another part is hes 2 grades ahead of me..but he also is my neighbor and were kinda friends i guess but i want to tell him hwo i feel but i dont know if he will feel the same and it would make things akward..so what should i do? please help

I know what your going through, I went through the same thing. I had it set in my mind that I really did love this boy, because your going through the I think about him all the time when he comes around I get butterflies, I get all warm inside, but thats only part of love. Your young you'll fall in "love" millions of times. But if you want to know whats going on with him, as hard as it maybe go over to his house sit on his porch with him and be real. tell him how you feeling, and how you think he knows because he started changing.Let him know that its alright if he doesnt feel the same way, yall can just be friends. It worked out for me.

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