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backbiting bestfriends...
hi,
i hav 3 friends that were my best lets say friend 1,2 and,3. i overheard them talkin about some one i assume is me. friend 1 said my name n then started whispering, friend 2 then said- i know with a dirty look and friend 3 kept on looking at me and then said- i don't like her either. i got upset and really really really really angry! i even start crying. my other friends were comforting me but im stressing over it, if i made a mistake because i stopped sitting next to them and talking to them.
about 2 days later(today) i was sitting next to friend 1(the closest) because i wasn't allowed to move and i passed her a note asking her wahat it was they didn't like about me and that i heard them talking about me. she just pushed it away . now i always hear them talking about me. it really hurts because i do care for friend 1 alot(not bothered too much about the 2 though).
they've started ignoring me completely.
i want to talk to them again but i don't want to
seem like a suck-up...help me please.
i kind of miss them...
yours stressingly
sad sad girl
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They are not your friends!I kind of know how you feel,because this has happened to me.Just don't talk to them.It's their problem that they want to lose a good friend.
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Im sry because i cant tell you going up to them and saying stop talking to me and be my friends will help because it wont. The arent your real friend and really aint BEST friends if they sat there and talked about you in front of your face. Go on with your life like they aint bothering you.....and just maybe they may run back to you cuz they see you aint missing them. But sucking up to them isnt helping. Sometimes when we grow we grow apart, and im guessing it about that time.
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THEY ARE NOT YUR FREAKING FRIENDS, friends don't treat friends like that and not feel at all guilty or a apologize a million times!!! What you do is when you hear them talking about you LAUGH YUR ASS OFF!! Why would u care what a bunch of jerks think of you, their going to think that either way, and this way at least yur showing their not getting to you. I'm really really sorry they hurt you, but act like you don't care!! It works! Don't let them know they hurt u! Good Luck and SORRY!
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They`re not your friends. They were talking about you and got caught by you. Now they are mad and embarrased. Give them time, they might apologize if not then find new friends. ♥
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